Is it bad?

Hay, sex is part of life. You need to fall in true love with someone. When you are in love with someone ur whole becomes like one soul in two bodies. You won't want to have every man after that

I don't know it's gotten to a point where yeah sex is fun sometimes but I find more enjoyment from self pleasure but then again I'm also shy and get nervous around others so maybe that's why as well. I do know that it's created issues though with myaelf in the past and still is something I want to break but it's been really hard