My husband is addicted to sexting
It is a struggle for me everyday. I found him on a website called doublelist, though that’s not the first time I’ve seen things. He has admitted to having a problem and wants to work thru it. A lot has to do with his self esteem issues. Its time consuming and exhausting having to snoop. My anxiety is off the charts, it’s destroying any self worth I have. I have one friend I can talk with and it helps a lot. We are so great together , he always wants to be with me I just can’t wrap my head around why he wants to tarnish our marriage 😔
@reliableSky4236
how about him sexting you? i wish it was this simple, right?
I wish it was that simple ….it honestly consumes my day, I’m always fighting my thoughts of wondering what he’s doing 😔
Your husband is sexting other women. You're talking to another friend. I don't understand this part, is the one that always wants to be with you your husband or your friend?
Your husband trying to hide his sexting, you're snooping to find out more about it, he admitted to it and is still doing it secretly. Both of you agree it's due to his low self esteem; similar to how you say you have low self worth.
You're trying to understand why your husband would want to tarnish your marriage. This post is in the category Addiction.
Your husband wants to work through it. Has he already started doing it? How? Is his goal to tarnish the marriage? What are your needs? What might his needs be? Have you talked about it together? How could both of your needs be fulfilled?