Trying to quit for good
Hey.
Im not really sure. For about 5 years now.
If i do not have partners at the time i will watch porn and masturbate at least 3 times everyday.
If i have a partner or partners i will have sex at least 2 times a day.
Even with multiple partners. One after the other sometimes. I can kind of control this if i do not have a drink but if i do have a drink then i will be sleeping around can get my self into 3somes. 4somes. Find my self in a bit of trouble.
I want to stop. I have a partner. Who is getting serious. The problem is we will not be together for 6 months. I dont know how i will control this.
Do you think i have a problem or this is normal ?
@Kayceej
In my opinion, when it comes to this type of stuff, it is a problem if it is interferring with your life. So from your description, it is a problem. The need for sex, or desire to, is human nature.. a primal instinct meant for the survival of our species.
Self-control is the key. Masturbation is an effective way to satisfy the needs that you are dealing with, with Self-control. From what your are describing, that maybe the issue. I have read discussions that this type of behaviour may be routed in childhood drama, lack of "normal" inhibitions, potentially could be an addiction, and/or a symptom of manic behaviour : the amount of truth or fact behind each of these I am not sure of.
so basically, if it is creating problems in your life and you are having trouble control it, I would recommend some therapy to help you deduce what is really going on.
Good luck!