watch too much porn, can't control
And i lost sex drive with my wife as a result. Also i have some special interests which my wife doesn't know and can't satisfy. My sense of guilt is accelerating. But i couldn't control my body and mind. How should i deal with that?
@brightFarm6913 You are going through a difficult time now since you lost your sex drive due to the pornography addiction and that your sex life with your wife is now suffering. Usually, the more you distance yourself from pornography the healthier your sex drive and sex life becomes. Pornography has that subliminal power to take control of your body and mind. Try distancing yourself from pornography for awhile and see if that helps.
Thanks for reply I have some fetish that she can't satisfy I only can get it done through porn and imagination I hate my preference but couldn't control it even if i tried very hard.
@brightFarm6913 You're welcome. It sounds like that not only can your wife satisfy your fetish, but you can't find the true satisfaction that really you desire through the pornography and imagination. Since you cannot control it and it is taking over you, it may be helpful to you to distance yourself from it and readjust your focus.
hi! i used to be in a similar situation with my boyfriend. he had lil sex drive for me and constantly relied on porn for the dopamine and stress relief. he also enjoyed how his unrealistic fantasies were fulfilled. he asked me to help him with his porn addiction since he had no control. we tried finding ways and agreed to cutting off adult websites from his phone. now he’s been more productive and wanting me to fulfill his sexual needs and says he hasn’t thought about porn for weeks. he struggled with the addiction for ten years. so i hope you both can come to an agreement together bout it. but the importance we found was getting rid of the environment. and preventing adult websites did just that!
