This gets me every time
Hi:
I have a regular job and my colleagues all know that I am an autie/aspie right? Anyway, several of my colleagues are really close and I am trying to learn not to hide behind my desk or in my office all the time or avoid people. Of those few times that I have reached out to a few colleagues who go by "Office besties" I have attempted to join in. They have had to turn me away and tell me that they have some personal items to talk about. I end up in tears every time they turn me down.
@Summershy
Hi again Summer,
Im sorry you are feeling rejected like this.
@DavidEss a friend of mine who works in a different department thinks they are doing it on purpose. She thinks that they are mad that they can shape me to fit their mold
@Summershy
I understand that you may well feel lonely , but I hope that you will never fit their mould.
@DavidEss they have been bullying me by exclusion and ignoring my Facebook posts. Everyone else seems to be important
@Summershy
It's basically tribal behaviour, imo. You don't belong to their tribe, they won't let you in.
They are basically slaves to their animal natures. Not that that is any excuse, you understand, just my opinion on why the situation is unlikely to change. .
@DavidEss they are so bad that they ignore me on social media and other things.
However, you are right they wont change and you cant correct someone like that. Because they will tell you that you are overly sensitive or overly reacting. Another one is I wanted to invite you but the others in the group said no because they didnt know how you might ac
