Can two people with ADHD be in a relationship?

Me and my girlfriend (both women) have been together for almost 6 years now. Both of us have ADHD. I am more an inattentive type and my girlfriend is impulsive and hyperactive. Our relationship is great and we really love each other. Were even planning on getting married and starting a family. But lately, we fight a lot about pointless stuff.

We always argued but most of the time it was over before the real fighting started. But now we don't argue anymore were getting into big fights. Some even turned physical (not beating each other up or anything, but still we give each other bruises and break things), it scares me how both of us can lose control so easily.

We use to make each other better but now when we fight were bringing out the worst in each other and it's really starting to tare us down. We both dont want to fight all the time but we don't know how to stop. Can two people with ADHD make it work?