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Indecision in love, please help me.

User Profile: Lostinlove27
Lostinlove27 January 31st, 2024

Good evening, this is my first time posting something, but I feel like I really need help. I'm 23 years old and I've been in a relationship with my uncle on my mother's side for three years, he's perfect, simply perfect, he looks like he came out of a romance book. We are very happy, but sometimes I feel like I'm depriving him of better things, for example we can't get married, or even have children, you know?? I keep asking myself if what we do isn't wrong and if it's better to end it, but is it worth sacrificing our love and happiness because of other people's opinions. If anyone can help me with this issue, then please tell me what is the best thing to do. Thank you very much in advance.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 February 1st, 2024

@Lostinlove27

I think you know the answer if you MUST keep a secret.... you know it is not something you should think of a future.  A person who loves you would have never put you in this situation and holding a secret that may implode not just this but your whole extended family 

he is taking advantage of you....... at his age HE knows better and this can be seen as abuse...  that is NOT love. That is setting you up for years of issues to see what this is. 

User Profile: lovelyBookworm57
lovelyBookworm57 February 20th, 2024

You can't differentiate family love from couples love and he's taking advantage of you. I know you think that I'm wrong but he's playing with your heart. Old men like to hang out with young girls because they can control and manipulate them.