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Critical and Unfair Supervisor

User Profile: neatBlueberry5213
neatBlueberry5213 June 5th, 2023

I'm constantly living on edge thanks to some volatile, unprofessional and very critical interactions with my supervisor. She jumps me without warning and I shut down. I can't defend myself, I just get teary eyed and my heart races.


I do my best to fly under her radar and yet she still comes at me for the smallest things. I'm struggling. :(

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User Profile: DaninUK
DaninUK June 6th, 2023

Do you mean at work? If you think you're being bullied go to HR. Don't let it make you more anxious.

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User Profile: neatBlueberry5213
neatBlueberry5213 OP June 6th, 2023

@DaninUK

Yes, my supervisor at work. My organization doesn't have a dedicated HR department and the last time I had issues with a boss and had enough courage to go to HR with the abuse, they fired me. I'm hesitant to be put in a spot where I might lose my job again.

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User Profile: DaninUK
DaninUK June 6th, 2023

I'm sorry to hear that, it's really unfair. You need to fake it to make ... I mean just be strong, even if your not. If she has a go, ask what you need to do to be better. Yes it's tough, but kill em with kindness.

User Profile: glowingPond
glowingPond June 6th, 2023

Hi @neatBlueberry5213 , I am so sorry you are going through all of this. Is there a way you could report these situations to someone? Unfortunately in our path in life we can find people that we do not connect with and people that might hurt us.

I am sorry you are feeling that way and I hope everything will work out for you and you can restore your peace. A big hug your way!