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Reminder✨️🌌
by daydreammemories
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2 days ago
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Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
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Tuesday
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
Weekly Prompt #41: Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety?
by ASilentObserver
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Tuesday
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago, we discussed what kind of behaviors anxiety has caused you to engage in. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable, too. If anyone hasn't shared them yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/], and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt:  Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety? There are often underlying beliefs and fears that fuel anxiety and these can be categorized into a few key areas like core beliefs, fears, negative thinking patterns, etc. Let's start to discuss and share these behaviors and I look forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences. Did you join us in the Anxiety Support Chat? It is available every Wednesday for the entire day. [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]
overthinking
by independentSailboat3979
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8 minutes ago
...See more I have such a problem with overthinking and I'm starting to push everyone away, my best friend of three years stopped talking to me because I still haven't changed and I'm tired of being this way. I'm tired of losing everyone in my life, I'm tired of drinking and smoking myself till I cant I just want a friend I wanna get better and I don't know how to and honestly I don't know if this is the thread for this but there's js so much and I cant even say it all.
Need a friend!
by MustangGal004
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51 minutes ago
...See more I'm in need of a friend to talk to. Anyone! I think I might be depressed. I know I have been diagnosed with anxity. But I feel like my life have no meaning anymore. Like work is jusy something I have to do now. I no longer enjoy my passion. I used to spend ours washing and cleaning my car. Now I dont even wanna do that! I dont wanna drive anywhere. I just need a friend please 😪😭
holiday anxiety
by Kait
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3 hours ago
...See more So relatable 😂 How is everyone coping with anxiety over the holidays? 
Coping with anxiety
by Dylzine
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3 hours ago
...See more Hi all! I have terrible anxiety, it’s got to the stage where my friend thinks if I don’t get a hold on it, I’ll get so worked up that I’ll have a stroke or heart attack. I worry about everything. I guess I’ve always been this way, but I really want to stop. I hate worrying my friend, and I do feel like it shouldn’t be her responsibility to pick me up through these worries I have. They can be the littlest thing, but I end up getting worked up. Like yesterday, I had a message from my old employer, speaking about something that happened two years ago. Instead of talking it through, I just thought; “Will that be a warning?” Even though I don’t work for them anymore, I’m in a completely different role. Anyway I just wanted to know what coping mechanisms do you use when tackling anxiety? many thanks for reading.
Subconscious anxiety
by ivoryYard3686
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4 hours ago
...See more Sorry, this is my first time doing something like this, and to be honest, I still have no idea how it works. I have a problem with subconscious anxiety. It has started to negatively affect my education, work, and overall life. When I’m at university and we have to do something with our hands (some kind of experiment), I start shaking. The strange thing is that I volunteer to do it because I don’t feel scared, anxious, or ashamed to perform in front of my professor and colleagues. But when I actually start, in that moment, my hands begin to tremble. I feel nervous because everyone can see it, and in the end, I’m unable to complete the experiment properly. The problem with hand tremors started a long time ago, but at that stage, it didn’t affect my life significantly. Now, I overthink it all the time. I feel like everyone is staring at me and judging me, thinking I’m incapable of doing this job (I’m in veterinary school, so I NEED steady hands). I should also mention that I experience tremors even when I’m at home, alone. My laboratory results, including hormones and insulin resistance, are all normal, so it’s clear that the problem in ym head and I’m terrified. I am aware of my problem and i want to solve it but i don't know how.
Essays
by GoblinBoyQ
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7 hours ago
...See more I have a persuasive essay due and It
is anxiety ruining my relationship?
by dynamicCurrent1077
Last post
21 hours ago
...See more for a backstory i live as an immigrant in a conservative country with my parents. i have a boyfriend who i love and he’s very affectionate (PDA…etc) although i struggle with physical touch as a result of my childhood trauma i feel safe enough with him but every time we are in public and he wants to show affection i reject him and start feeling super anxious and like im suffocating. i started noticing that when i do this he gets sad and he says my anxiety is controlling me. and i really don’t know how to change that because when he touches me all i think about is the consequence of being seen like that in this conservative society i live in and i get uncomfortable. and rejecting him every time gives me so much pain. how do i handle this? can it ruin my relationship?
Grief and Anxiety 🖤
by daydreammemories
Last post
1 day ago
...See more The pain of losing someone you love isn't a weakness. It's a sign of how deeply you can care. Grief happens when love has nowhere else to go. It's the heart's way of remembering. Of holding on to connection, even after someone is gone.  It's messy, it's real, it's human. It's not about getting over the loss quickly, that's not how love works. It's about understanding that missing someone means you love them completely.  Real healing isn't about forgetting, it's about carrying their memory with you. Letting the love stay alive in a different way. It's about creating space for your feelings, understanding that sadness and love live side by side. We all experience loss differently. We all grieve in our own way and that's okay! We aren't broken by our pain. We are shaped by how deeply we can love. :) When was the last time you experienced grief, and how did it affect you?
I am very stressed
by creativeMango2943
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1 day ago
...See more I get very stressful over the mistakes that I have done. Today, I was accused of cheating on a test. Even though I was the person stopping my friend from doing so, since it was stupid and he would easily get caught. Later, while playing football, a kidr told me I couldn’t play. Since, most of my classmates think that I’m quite and not that outgoing at all. I feel like there’s a lot of pressure on me at this young age. I just want to enjoy high school stress free.
Fear of failure
by neatCar3218
Last post
2 days ago
...See more Anxiety about failing every possible thing- an importable meeting, social interaction, a party, phone call, being a mother. I feel blue.
a dose of self compassion
by Kait
Last post
2 days ago
...See more I am a big believer that we are our own worst critics. How can you show yourself some grace & compassion today? 
Reminder✨️🌌
by daydreammemories
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2 days ago
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