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Anxious Attachment Style

User Profile: decisiveTangerine8202
decisiveTangerine8202 July 13th, 2023

Hello,


I struggle with anxious attachment style, and was wondering what methods people found to help them the most?

I’m open minded to trying new things!


I just wish to spend more time enjoying being in a relationship rather than worrying about it.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence July 16th, 2023

@decisiveTangerine8202

Hi Tangerine!

Sorry to hear you experience anxiety when in a relationship. It's surely heavy to deal with it and probably it's something 24/7 that never leaves you alone.

You said something very accurate, you have understood the point, so I think you are half way to improve for good: ''I just wish to spend more time enjoying being in a relationship rather than worrying about it.''

What if you could identify also what causes the worry? Is it lack of self confidence? Is it due to a bad memory of something experienced in the past? Is it a specific behavior the other peson has, something you could let them know about to prevent triggers?

Feel free to post again to share how things are going, take care!