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User Profile: buriedhopes
buriedhopes February 12th, 2025

After years of being on turbulent relationships 3 years ago I decided to stop looking for one with the consequences it has like I have to accept I'll never have kids of my own, but it was fine as I had my niece (from sister) and nephew (from brother) but now I might never or hardly ever will see my nephew again because my stupid brother is so lacking of balls to do the things right and take control over my nephew raising.


Since nephew was born his mother never took care of him, years passed and she never took care of food, school, activities, psychologist, nothing, all that was done by my brother, and after 8 years my brother's wife kick him out of the house telling him she would only take care of the kid on weekends, but when the time arrived she regretted it and told my brother that she will take care of the kid from Wed to Sun and left my brother with only Mon to Wed. But now after 8 months (during which my brother hasn't get divorced yet not arriving to a tribunal agreement) his wife decide to stop bringing the kid to school thus not letting my brother to see his kid.


In my country is really hard for a man to win tribunal cases to keep custody of a kid.


I'm really sad and just want to punch my brother so hard for not waking up and starting to do anything to take his son back. He is just so frustrating, so negative.


Just needed to vent it all out. At least I still can see my niece, but do really miss my nephew :'(

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User Profile: CheeryMango
CheeryMango February 18th, 2025

I can feel how heavy it all weighs on you, and it's understandable to be so frustrated with the situation and with your brother. It takes a lot to process all these emotions, and you're doing that. The love and care you have for your nephew is clear, and even if it feels like things are out of control right now, your strength in continuing to be there for your niece shows your heart.