Does anyone know what narcissistic bullying is?
Does anyone here have experience with or knowledge about narcissistic bullying? I think I might be dealing with this right now and would really appreciate learning more about the warning signs or hearing from others who have been through it.🌿
@cherishedMagic7425
I am sorry to hear that you may be having to deal with bullying or narcissism at such a young age. I have dealt with many a narcissist and would not wish that on anyone. I am wondering, does you school have a counselor that you could touch base with? You need people in your life who can give you one-on-one guidance. Also, coming here and connecting with the various Listeners could be beneficial. I hope that you are able to get some relief.
@caringShoulder1357
Thank you so much for the support! My school actually doesn't have a counsellor, but I really appreciate your advice and care.
Thanks again....
Sorry your school does not have a counsellor. Nurses used to multitask before roles were divided so talk to probably her or if you are comfortable with another member of staff that is ok.
@DancingDaoist thanks for advice but my school doesn't have counsellor or nurses and forget abt going to any teacher bcz u know i have SAD and i try to be invisible in school and i am really bad at public speaking and arguments (my own body is like failing me) and my bully is the best at those things and often bully me for not giving speeches.
I dont want teachers to think i am jealous of her
It is good to say when we admire someone. You could help younger than yourself if you find older people can help.
It sounds like you have someone in mind to talk to. Rather than think try to feel what emotions are attached to doing this. There will be a complex ball of them. You have probably picked someone nice to talk to and am scared they might not be as nice as you like. Reality they might not be as nice as you hope probably pretty nice.
Most fears are like that they are extreme the reality is things normally more in middle. You say you are SAD you might have grand parents the teacher you like probably has lost theirs so has known sadness.
For young happy is often meaning up, for older happy often means contented.
I reported bullying and the lecturers were unhappy it was happening. They would have been devastated to know it had happened there discomfort at knowing about it meant it went unreported.
The bullies later thanked me for stopping them. This was at university so don’t expect school children to grow up so quickly.
Please find something to hug.
