Frdship break up
i recently had a frdshipp breakup.... She was my bestest and closest friend.... I miss her.... She's blaming me though nd bcz of that I'm feeling guilty but ikw it wasn't only my mistake
Uhmmmm iknw I'm not at fault only.... But she is just blaming me and which is making me feel guilty.... Uhmmm can I tell you the whole story and based on that can you tell who's actually at fault 😭... But It's actually quite long story though
I'm really sorry you're going through this. Losing your closest friend hurts deeply, and it’s okay to feel heartbroken. But please don’t keep blaming yourself, friendship takes two, and it’s not all on you. Be kind to yourself. You did your best, and that’s enough. You deserve peace and people who value you just as much.
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Hi
Hello welcome to 7 cups. I am here to help u.i completely understand how the distance from a closed friend feels. It's painful. Tell me little more in detail about your friendship
So I'll tell you from starting... Let's move to 1.5 years ago.. My friend had a relationship with a guy who was obsessed with her.... Used to like her so much.... But during that rltnship.. My friend starting liking another guy named Karan... She started looking out for him and cheated on her boyfriend Rahul..... Then she tried to broke up with him... And when she did...Rahul started messaging me about tarun (my bestie).... We actually had a trio me, tarun and another friend prachi.... Then when rahul started messaging me about tarun.... I told tarun and she said me to talk to him daily and lie to him that how tarun is loyal and don't talk to any guys (while she was just opposite) then for few months.... This happened... I used to talk to rahul about tarun and tarun knew it.... But then tarun started talking to rahul also.... And rahul told me this not tarun... So i was kinda upset about this that why she didn't tell me thid even though she call me bestie..... Then as me and rahul were talking from months and obviously we attached to each other not in a romantic way but in brother sister relationship.... Then rahul started telling me about secrets which tarun hided from me and how she used to say bad things about me.... Which made me start hating tarunn so i also started back *** about tarun to rahul..... Rahul also used to tell me about my boyfriend's secret... So i genuinely started trusting rahul.... Then a time came when tarun became girlfriend of rahul again and she told me to block rahul now.... So i did... But rahul started messaging me on what's app....so i started talking to him on what's app also..... We used to *** about tarun coz i have started hating her now... But i never revealed her secrets which was the actual reason why rahul gained my trust.... So tht i can reveal tarun's secrets but i never did.... Then we hid this from tarun that we used to talk.... Then they both again broke up coz tarun again cheated on him..... And rahul used to cry and all.... So i started comforting him (tarun didn't know) i used to comfort and support tarun infront of tarun.... This happened for few more months... Then prachi and used to make me left out.... So I started hating them more and more.... And started taking comfort from rahul..... But after few months.... Rahul told prachi also everything..... And prachi started hating tarun also..... Then what happened.... Rahul and prachi came into romantic relationship while tarun didn't know..... Prachi and rahul even kissed... They also went on dates... When i came to know about this..... I felt bad for tarun and fought with prachi and rahul.... But tarun somehow founded out that prachi and rahul talks... So she broke up with both of them.... Then I started comforting tarun.... I felt bad for abandoning prachi also..... So i didn't break frdship with her...... I also supported and comforted prachi behind tarun's back.... But then i also somehow made tarun and prachi patch up.... And rahul continuously made tarun hate me and me hate tarun... Revealed her secrets and my bf secrets..... This continued for months.... I used to be in tarun's side in front of her.... And be in prachi's side in front of her coz i don't wanted to hurt them.... They both used to hate each other.... Then one day i decided to tell tarun everything..... Coz i felt like i betrayed her.... So i told her not everything but little about rahul that we used to talk and he used to manipulate me against you and stuff and wanted to be loyal to tarun ... Then tarun in anger told rahul everything.... And rahul wanted to take revenge from me for exposing him... So he showed tarun proofs where i was hating on her... And talking behind her back..... And all.... So she called me while crying and said how can you do this to me.... I was your best friend... You betrayed me.... She said this to me.... I felt guilty and hurted.... In anger....i told tarun about prachi and rahul.... And i said sorry to her and said I'll leave you from your life by my own.... Nd then i blocked her from everywhere.... Then in seek of revenge what she did.... She revealed all my personal stufd and secrets to my bf.... So that me and my boyfriend could breakup.... But she failed in that.... My bf chosed to trust me.... But now.... She's again friends with prachi which is strange coz she used to hate her..... And they're besties now... Even though I told her about how prachi cheated on her..... And seeing them together is boiling my blood.... I'm having so much guilt.... Overwhelmed and jealous
@arshnoorisdumb Thank you for sharing all of that, seriously, that’s not easy. I can feel how much this whole situation has hurt you. You were in the middle of people you genuinely cared about, and it’s clear you tried to handle everything the best you could while dealing with a lot of pressure, emotions, and shifting loyalties.
It’s totally okay to feel guilty, jealous, and overwhelmed right now. You didn’t set out to hurt anyone, you were trying to be there for everyone, even when they weren’t doing the same for you. And sometimes in the middle of all that confusion, we make choices that come from pain or pressure, not from a bad heart. The truth is, it’s exhausting trying to hold onto people who are constantly crossing boundaries or pulling you in different directions. You’ve been carrying so much, and it’s okay to take a breath now and let yourself heal... You deserve peace, and friendships that don’t come with guilt, manipulation, or betrayal. Mistakes don’t define you, how you learn and grow from them does. I'm proud of you for being honest, and you’re not alone in this.!
