Hello, I need your help
I am going through a very hard time, which is supported by health anxiety and also school pressure plus something that looks similar to gender Dysphoria but I have not been diagnosed by a professional, I need your help because I am feeling overwhelmed, life has been hard and I am only 15! I just want peace, and nothing more, I don't want expensive phones or tablets or laptops or anything luxurious, I want to live normal peaceful life, and remain healthy, please Help me!
Life as a 15 year old can feel overwhelming. Expectations of you are high and come from all different directions. Dont take everything so seriously. In your heart you know who you are. No one can tell you differently. Dont rush it. Your getting started with life.
Im a parent of a 15 year old and they have told me they are pan sexual. Im okay with that. They want to make YouTube videos and stream. If that makes you happy and you make money. Do it. Be safe and respectful. Be a good human is all I ask.
If your struggling because your not sure if you will be accepted then I would suggest talking to your parents or siblings. Letting it out and talking about it helps. Of course you can use this too but be safe and never give out personal info.
If your struggling because ofreligious reasons. Know that god is ever loving and welcoming. Jesus loved beggars and women of the night. He helped everyone and would never turn you away. He sacrificed his life so you could spend eternity in paradise. Man is flawed and we all make mistakes. Your journey has just started and know that it will be winding and have obstacles. Good and bad. Happy and sadness. It will all shape you into who you are meant to be. Just be good, kind, and understanding.
Anxiety is an evil little trick in our minds. Makes us overthink and fear the most simple situations. If you feel overwhelmed, take a moment and organize your thoughts. Know what calms you down and use it to relax. I carry a stress ball with googly eyes. You can carry a plush or a book that you like.
Promise that you will never think the worst possible thoughts. You life is special and unique and cherished. You are loved and admired. Please move forward and let us know how you are doing.
Oh wow, thank you so much!
Hey 💙 I'm sorry you're going through this
That all sounds so overwhelming deal with 💙 you deserve that peace
If you want to talk it out, I'm here, or any other listener 💙 we're here for you
Hey. I just want to say I really hear you.
What you’re describing sounds so heavy — especially the feeling of being overwhelmed all the time, like your mind never really gets to rest. And being 15 on top of that, with school pressure and everything… it can honestly feel like too much for one person.
I’ve gone through something similar with anxiety and that constant feeling of being stuck in your own head, so I kind of understand that “I just want peace” feeling. It’s not about wanting fancy things or anything big — it’s just wanting your mind to be quiet and life to feel manageable again.
You are enough, you matter and that, I do understand what you're going thru as myself is overwhelmed by school work and pressure but things will get better and you can do it. Believe in yourself.
I want you to know you’re not weak for feeling like this. When everything builds up, it makes sense to feel overwhelmed. It doesn’t mean you’re failing — it just means you’ve been carrying a lot.
And even if it doesn’t feel like it right now, this feeling doesn’t stay this intense forever. It comes in waves, and slowly, it can get lighter again. Not instantly, but step by step.
For now, try not to put pressure on yourself to “fix everything.” Even small things count — like resting your mind for a bit, doing one small task at a time, or just allowing yourself to take breaks without guilt.
One tip from me is to plan what youre going to study. Like a routine. And also study like 1 week before an exam because trust me if you leave it to the last 2 days or the night before everything is gonna pile upp. And also have free time do the things you enjoy and the things you like.
You don’t have to go through it alone either. Even just talking to someone a little bit can help take some weight off.
And just remember — God knows your strength and knows you can get through this, so why not believe in yourself? Allah is always with us and hear our struggles- we may have different religions but we are all humans and have emotions and feelings- and we all can relate to each other. We all can help each other.
I really hope things start feeling a bit softer for you soon. You deserve peace, even if it doesn’t feel close right now. You can do it. You go girle♡