Hi, I am a 25-year-old. I will use a translator because I know little English.
Please read my story and help me with your personal opinions and experiences.
My partner and I lived together we were the couple we loved each other, then I had to go for a few months for work to another place and when I returned, she no longer loved me in the same way because she was with another person and I did not know, then when I found out I tried to forgive her and try to continue with our life together but then I could not feel betrayed and I also looked for another person, I was unfaithful and then my partner found out and we were both very disappointed, we separated and... After a while we came back she tried to do everything to make me happy and she gave me a lot of love but I made more mistakes I was unfaithful again but she tried to forgive me, she was always there with me in the good and bad times and much more in the bad times she helped me a lot and gave me a lot of her love, then my father died and she was there giving me her support and I did not know how to value her I was unfaithful and no matter how much she loved me I was not reciprocal with her and now that finally I decided to tell her to forgive me for all the times that I was not good with her and that we live together again and that we have children and a family, she responded by telling me that she is already meeting someone else and that she cannot be with me that she wants to give herself the opportunity to be happy with someone else to meet that other person and that we remain as friends.
What should I do? I love her very much but now she no longer wants a relationship with me because she already has another partner.
It sounds like you’ve gone through a lot with this person, and it’s clear you still love her. I know that’s painful to hear, but if you really love her, you have to respect her decision. She gave you many chances, and for whatever reason you weren’t ready to commit to her fully when she was still willing to fight for your relationship. Now, she’s in a place where she wants to move forward with someone new. It’s hard to realize you took something for granted and only truly saw its value when it was gone. Let yourself feel the pain, and use it to grow into a better version of yourself.
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