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User Profile: outofmyskin
outofmyskin September 15th, 2025

How to survive if my husband left me, i found put im pregnant and my soon to be ex husband is asking for abortion, sauing that he will have no part in raising this child, will not have connection eoth the child and i found out he is sleeping with my best friend from childhood? She was like a sister to me but we stopped connecting 3 years ago.

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User Profile: outofmyskin
outofmyskin OP September 15th, 2025

We have 9year old son that we now split time. So i cant cut all connections. How to get trough this? They will be together and have children of their own and ahe will be stepmother to my child. How to get trough this

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 September 15th, 2025

@outofmyskin that's a very heartbreaking situation to be in😥 I'm so sorry sweetie 😥 first of all please don't get a abortion, until you really think and know what you want. Your nine year old is your son and always will be💖 there might be another woman in the mix, but your son will never stop needing you or loving you 💖 the best thing you can do for him is to just be there for him, let him know that you are is safe place 💖 one thing we can never be sure of is the future😕 so to live in the present is very important right now 💖 I know that's not easy to do though 🙁 the betrayal of your friend is just terrible😥 we will never be able to understand the actions of some people😥 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 please take extra care of yourself and remember we are all here for you 💗

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User Profile: outofmyskin
outofmyskin OP September 15th, 2025

Thank you for kind words. Im not doing an abartion. When i found out i was already in 9 weeks, now at 12. She is moving, her heart is beating, thats my growing child. I just feel bad that the father wont love her, im afraid i will be too weak to take care of her on my own

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 September 16th, 2025

@outofmyskin I'm so glad your not getting a abortion💖💖 and your not alone, you have your son and he's gonna turn out to be the best big brother ever💖 you also have us here at cups we are here for you every step of the way 💗 hugs you gently 💖

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