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I lost everything in my life

User Profile: Kumarraja
Kumarraja June 3rd, 2025

After 25 years with the love of my life, I broke up with my girlfriend in 2018. Since then, I've lost interest in everything. My family and friends are far away, and I feel alone right now.

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User Profile: Spiritriver
Spiritriver June 7th, 2025

@Kumarraja

I’m sorry you’re feeling so alone. That’s a long time to be in a relationship, so its ending had to be really painful. I was in a relationship for 18 years before it ended. I was unable to function for months, and depressed for much longer.


After 3 years, I met someone. She’d been alone for 7 years. I got really lucky.


I wish you were closer to family and friends. Feel free to message me if you want to talk.  

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User Profile: Kumarraja
Kumarraja OP June 11th, 2025

I'll try move on life but unable to that

User Profile: Kumarraja
Kumarraja OP June 11th, 2025

Thank you for your concern

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User Profile: Hummingbird2
Hummingbird2 June 7th, 2025

@Kumarraja

what happened why did you break up? 25 years is a very long time there most have been things about the relationship you enjoyed? What in the relationship didn’t work? I’d use this time to reflect on what happened so that you don’t take it into future relationships. Good luck!

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User Profile: Kumarraja
Kumarraja OP June 11th, 2025

Community problem

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User Profile: Ariavenoir222
Ariavenoir222 June 7th, 2025

Hi, I’m sorry you had a breakup with someone you cared for. Distance is also challenging when you want to keep up with relatives or friends even if they are a phone call away. Sending you light and new connections your way.

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User Profile: Kumarraja
Kumarraja OP June 11th, 2025

Thank you for your concern I'll try move on my life but unable to that

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User Profile: Toshiwo
Toshiwo June 11th, 2025

I was told that ae need closure in order to move on.

And this can be done in mre than 1 way.

The easiest, and maybe a good one to elaborate your feelings, would be to write a letter to her, yo don't need to send it, just write it.

User Profile: intelligentSpruce343
intelligentSpruce343 June 13th, 2025

I'm so sorry I've a bad experience too I entered university this year then I fell in love my 100 level second semester then they boy liked another girl so we separated I love that boy so much but he was with another girl as soon as we broke up he went for the girl guess what I'm in pain I'm frustrated

User Profile: sociableBeechwood9106
sociableBeechwood9106 June 13th, 2025

@Kumarraja I too have lost everything, and no one seems to understand the pain it causes, nor do they seem to care.