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User Profile: andstilligrow
andstilligrow August 20th, 2025

I’m in a place in my life now where I’ve noticed the people around me don’t fill my cup. I don’t feel like anyone around me is making any significant changes and seem very stuck. I’ve been keeping to myself more now in hopes that I find a deeper sense of self and become comfortable in the uncomfortability of loneliness. To those out there that have been working through something like this, how have you been dealing with the uncomfortability of being alone?

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 20th, 2025

@andstilligrow

Its comfortable for me.

I dont seek validation outside of myself.

I'm confident in my own ability to know what I need.

Id rather have one loyal friend, who I can be me with, than have a million fake conversations and be surrounded by people who don't allow me to be me 💜💕

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User Profile: andstilligrow
andstilligrow OP August 21st, 2025

And that’s what I feel like I struggle with, seeking the validation from others, especially when my internal validation mean more than someone else’s perception of me. I’m curious to know has this always been your thought process or this is something that you learned over time?

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