I want to move forward
I can't keep on carrying this weight in my chest but i can't stop thinking about my mistakes n the ppl involved worsening it... I want to forget but i'm constantly reminded of it. I don't want to forgive just to forget i wanna own up to my mistakes n stop blaming others.... Not only do i want to forgive ppl i also wanna forgive myself that it's ok to make dumb mistakes
Any tips/advice that has helped u change ur mindset regarding these things?...
Nobody is perfect and we all do make errors, whether on purpose or not. At least you are willing to admit to yours.
For me, sometimes it might take some time but I physically hold my hand up and say guilty, Yes I did that. I accept it and I'm going to be more careful or make up for it.
I don't know why putting my hand up helps but somehow it does. If people are rubbing your nose and trying to make you feel bad, what takes the sting out for me, is making a joke out of it...
Like yea, it was foolish, ha, will I ever learn? It takes the power away from them, knowing they can't upset you.
I just try to do something positive, for myself or someone else and think, I'm not always going to mess up, sometimes I'm going to get it right, or keep trying :)