Many moving parts
I just need to talk to someone. I'm new to 7cups. I'm dealing with a lot of stress right now. We just listed our house for sale. We bought out my husband's siblings from his moms estate 4 years ago now. Our goal was to either fix up the house or tear it down and rebuild. Well none of that is happening now. The house is not worth fixing up and we can't afford to tear it down. We're just hoping to get what we owe out of the sale. We'll need to move shortly and don't have the funds for a new place and a deposit.
His mom always wanted the house sold when she died and we should have listened. Now we're struggling just to make it. I'm embarrassed to have people come in for showings. I'm spiralling with my anxiety. I don't know what's going to happen and I don't like that. My future is unknown and I'm scared.
That's all. Thank you for listening if you made it this far.
@firefliesandbooks
Welcome to cups 🩷
I'm really sorry to hear all that you are going through
And there seems no way out.
Don't let the anxiety overcome you and I genuinely hope a solution arises that works for you 💚
When doors keep closing and the path gets more and more unclear, it’s terrifying. There WILL be a solution. Nothing lasts forever. This will be in your past soon and that is a guarantee. Focus on your immediate areas of your control - how you and your husband work together, what lessons you learn, and how you can stay grounded in one moment at a time. The day will come when you make decisions. It will be over before you know it!
When doors keep closing and the path gets more and more unclear, it’s terrifying. There WILL be a solution. Nothing lasts forever. This will be in your past soon and that is a guarantee. Focus on your immediate areas of your control - how you and your husband work together, what lessons you learn, and how you can stay grounded in one moment at a time. The day will come when you make decisions. It will be over before you know it!
