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Missing ex girlfriend

User Profile: Imissit5567
Imissit5567 January 25th, 2024

I wake upe every morning and go to bed every night super upset. I never did anything wrong and she mentioned that I was amazing and I deserve the world and that she had a great time, she was going through a lot at the moment and had a traumatic event happen that would have a negative impact on her future career. She was kicked out of school and needed to study harder and work more. We were together two months but never official. I offered to be there for her but she didn’t allow saying she would bring me down too. She never called me. Two weeks later I reached out again on Christmas she. She responded initially but didn’t text me whether she was okay or not. I was super upset. It’s been about 4 weeks since then and 6 weeks since the break up. She has kept me unblocked on everything besides for removing me from a dating app and her private story. We still snap daily for a streak and she still views my stories immediately. I don’t know how to feel or if there is a possible future for us? I just need help, I should also mention she was my first.

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User Profile: Jem7Cups
Jem7Cups January 27th, 2024

Hi @Imissit5567


I totally understand how you're feeling right now - sad and confused. It seems like you and this person had a really special connection, so going through a breakup can be tough, especially when you still have strong feelings and unanswered questions. It's important to keep in mind that everyone deals with tough situations differently, and it sounds like she's going through a challenging period in her life. Maybe she needs some space and time to focus on herself and her own future. However, it's also worth considering that her actions, like keeping you unblocked on social media and staying in touch daily, could mean that she still values you in her life. 

Of course, it's natural to wonder about the possibility of getting back together, but taking care of your own emotional well-being is super important too. It might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her, opening up about your feelings and concerns, while still respecting her boundaries. Remember, it's crucial to take care of yourself and lean on your supportive friends and family during this tough time.
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