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Sooo, i need you help, i need talk to me in english, i need talk about this. My mother dated a toxic guy; he was a total jerk and childish, only making her anxiety flare up, which caused my mother and I to have a terrible relationship.
But every time she argues with him, she comes to me for comfort. He's gone so far as to switch SIM cards to talk to her when she blocks him, follow her, and threaten to kill himself.
They just broke up, but she keeps talking to him, and he's still acting like a jerk. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't want to comfort her anymore, but I know I'm the only one she has.
@conscientiousPond2974
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It's not a good situation, I'm sorry you are struggling.
I can understand why you want to support your mother and why you are there for her, because you love her.
But ultimately she is choosing hum even though he's toxic.
He has to take accountability for his own actions and mental health.
And you have to calmly let your mother know, you deserve better than to be put behind someone making her so unhappy.
You too have a life to lead 💚
