What if no matter how hard you try they still doesn't understand you?
So listen Sometimes instead of blaming yourself and wondering, Maybe I'm the one who's wrong and that's why they couldn't understand me you need to accept that you cannot be a good person in everyone's story Let them go and prioritize your peace Respect them, but don't forget to respect yourself either And if they left and you couldn't accept it never blame yourself for that. Because you cannot be the right person for everyone Just take a deep breath and remind yourself that if they were meant to stay, they wouldn't have left. Because people who truly want to stay will always find reasons to stay not reasons to point out your mistakes
@Yourslistener07
Absolutely! I deal with that recently.. Some people are not in a good place or they are not a leader.. You can't focus all your energy on trying to convince someone who just focuses on denial or negativity to keep them in your life. 🌲
what if its your own family who doesn’t understand you?
It is deeply painful when the people who are supposed to know you best completely misunderstand you But please remember their inability to understand you is a reflection of their own limitations not your worth You don’t need to exhaust yourself trying to convince them Your feelings are real your pain is valid, and you are enough exactly as you are even if they can't see it
what if its your own family who doesn’t understand you?
When family doesn't understand it can feel incredibly lonely but you are not alone The fact that you are reaching out and posting in this support space shows how strong and resilient you are Sometimes the people who truly get us are the chosen family we find along the way friends support groups, and communities who accept us without judgment Keep holding on your people are out there and you will find them
