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What's wrong with me?

User Profile: lov3raaa0
lov3raaa0 April 14th, 2024

I'm so attached to my boyfriend to the point where if he's not with me I'm empty,we were a long distance couple but last week he came to meet me irl since then I can't bare the taught of him leaving,after he leaves my life change drastically I don't have the apetite to eat,I need his attention 24/7 on call

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User Profile: ukiyoomi
ukiyoomi April 21st, 2024

@lov3raaa0

Hello, it sounds like you're experiencing intense attachment and dependency on your boyfriend. It's natural to feel deeply connected to your partner, especially after spending time together in person. However, when your sense of self-worth and emotional well-being become solely dependent on their presence and attention, it can be a sign of unhealthy attachment patterns. It's essential to prioritize your own emotional well-being outside of your relationship. Are there past experiences or unresolved issues that may be contributing to these feelings? Understanding the root cause can help you address and work through them more effectively. If you feel comfortable, maybe communicate your feelings and concerns with your boyfriend. Let him know how his absence affects you and discuss ways you can support each other while maintaining healthy boundaries.