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User Profile: tealCup1474
tealCup1474 October 1st, 2025

I can’t seem to stop crying or getting emotional whenever someone shows me care or asks about how i am…

I do open up to people (friends/family) but it only gives me a short period of comfort and then i start to wallow in fear once again

I’m a final year university study who’s going through her transitioning period into the working force for my internship and it terrifies me to know that I’m not gonna have so much time anymore to be there for my family, myself, and my pets

I know nobody has any answers to how to truly live one’s life but the future, the unknown absolutely scares me

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User Profile: Voodvins
Voodvins October 1st, 2025

@tealCup1474

You seem very attached to your family and are afraid to leave them. Of course, such things, especially in times of change, are scary. But you can look at it from a different perspective. Your affairs will be different, you will start working, you will have the opportunity to spend money on yourself. You will also be able to meet good people, maybe you will even have new goals in life. Yes, it seems a little scary, but you are still alive and you have dreams, goals, right? The world can be cruel, but it can also be good. I think you are not entirely sure now, but with time it will become easier for you and you will be able to adapt a little. In the end, try to accept it and don’t worry, your family will still be in your life. Hang in there and be strong!

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User Profile: tealCup1474
tealCup1474 OP October 1st, 2025

I am terrified knowing that i’ll spend lesser time with them, and i know that they will always be my number 1 supporter in everything I do but sometimes i can’t help but feel that the change is coming so fast…like my parents are planning to move back to their hometown, my sister planning to head overseas and i’ll just be here alone

I really thank you for all the positive things you’ve mentioned i do think about all the positive stuff but it sucks knowing that the negative thoughts are just lingering

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User Profile: koli
koli October 4th, 2025

Oh i understand... thats though... life just seems so terrifying sometimes... and it really is ok for it to scare u... well that living i mean!

I understand that ur emotional. Emotions are beaitiful. But sometimes that can be too much fir us human beings... i believe ull get through this fear... <3

Maybe some journaling or walking could help? <3

Sending u all the love, support, strength, bravery, and relaxation 💪❤️