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Strategies to Shorten attacks?

User Profile: SecretlyMe
SecretlyMe January 27th, 2020

I don't suffer from attacks very often but that means that I don't know when to expect them (I guess we never know when to expect them otherwise it wouldn't be an attack). I just mean that I don't have particular triggers that I can identify that might set one in motion. Today I had a pretty severe one when I arrived to campus. I was crossing the street and a driver honked his horn at another driver behind me. I'm sure many people would jump, that isn't unusual, but I had a fight or flight response. I could feel my heartrate increasing at an exponential rate where I felt like it could jump right out of my chest and I had this sudden feeling that I needed to get away RIGHT NOW. I started walking faster (not a good idea when it feels like you can't breathe normally) as if someone were following me. Irrationally, I kept looking around to see if I was being chased and the logical part of my brain told me I needed to focus on my breathing but the panic kept yelling at me to go faster. I made it to my building and climbed the stairs to my floor and ran into my office. I immediately felt better when the door was close but not enough to calm down. I couldn't sit down and I wasn't calm enough to do a mediation exercise (which I have been doing regularly lately to calm my general anxiety). Instead I paced my office for over a half hour focusing on slowing my breath.

I hate when this happens (as rare as they are) and I worry because they have been occuring more regularly. Again, there are no discernable triggers (I don't get scared from car horns normally and I have been on this campus long enough to feel safe).

When you have irrational thoughts or you can't calm your mind to practice mediation, what are some other strategies that can be used instead? I can't devote a half hour to an hour each morning to calming myself down incase someone honks on my way to class. I need another solution.

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul January 27th, 2020

@SecretlyMe splashing cold water or your face or putting your face in some cold water can help

Listen to Binaural Beats or Waves

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User Profile: SecretlyMe
SecretlyMe OP March 15th, 2020

@mytwistedsoul I realized I never got back to this thread to thank you for the suggestions. I struggled to calm down with the music you suggested when I'm in the middle of an attack (although it's helpful to liisten to if I'm just stressed out or worried in general).

Shocking the system works great! I can't always walk away from anxious situations to do this (like when I'm in class). But when I can, this works beautifully!

Thank you for both of your suggestions. It means a lot to have recieved them. Especially so promptly after I asked for help. heart

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User Profile: beyondrepairs
beyondrepairs January 27th, 2020

@SecretlyMe

Immediate strategies is to use shock...scream if you are alone, pinch yourself when in pibluc, wash yourself with cold water...smash smth if you are alone and not hurting anyone, smash the hell out of smth...

Instead of singing in the shower, swear and curse and curse some more...

Every time a negative thought, an anxiety comes up to haunt you get at it with agressivity, swear at it at fuck the bloody hell out of it? Show it right then on the spot that you are a meaner sonof abitch than she is and no anxiety and fear and other depressing shit gets to you!!! Capiche? On the spot utter aggression and adrenaline, chase away all the bad...

Then you can relax and remember the smell of grass and flowers and breast...

Then you can look at the sky again and not down to the ground...

Then you will no longer be afraid of bugs but welcome them...

Fears overcome with anger lead you to confidence and calm...

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User Profile: SecretlyMe
SecretlyMe OP March 15th, 2020

@beyondrepairs I never thanked you for your suggestions. I'm sorry for the late reply but I want you to know that I tried them and they worked wonderfully. I didn't realize how helpful it was to expereince anger to combat anxiety. It almost seems counterintuitive but its great way to transfer that nervous energy into something something more productive. It's like gaining control of the situation again.

Thank you again. I appreciate you responding especially so soon after I asked for help.

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