Advice on breakup
I am having an incredibly.hard time getting over my ex boyfriend. We had an awful breakup in December but he led me on, on and off for 5 months after that. We just stopped talking for good 3 weeks ago. I was seriously in love with him and am having an extremely hard time moving on, where as he has already moved on. I need some advice/ motivation/ inspiration. Its affecting me in a crazy negative way.
I have the same problem. Its so hard to move on on a relationship that you thought will work forever. Me and my ex broke our 6-year relationship up 2 years ago. We knew we were both madly inlove but I wasnt matured enough for her so she eventually got tired of me. Until now I cant get myself to talk or flirt with other girls because I still really love her. We dont contact each other anymore so I dont know what shes up to. I dont know if she already move on or shes with another guy now but I really hope shes super happy even without me. I hope someday I can move on too.
@Chlo1234567
Hello,
I can imagine how it hurts. I had a break up last month. We were dating for two months, but were friends for years. We both said we were serious about each other. However at some point he started ignoring me, and said he believes that we will break up eventually in the future. I am kind of devastated because he was my first boyfriend and I am 30 years old.
I hope you get and feel better soon. I want you to remember that nothing is wrong with you, or the other person. Sometimes the two people are not right for eachother. And we can never know what life is going to bring us tomorrow. Give yourself sometime. Being sad and even terrified is completely normal.
Better days will come.
It's really sad when someone ends a relationship and then continues to lead you on into believing that they still want to be with you. 
Being ghosted in and of itself sucks, but it's especially hard to deal with if you'd emotionally invested in the relationship and they not only ghost you but lie about it as well.