Don
I have a tendency to turn every friend relationship into a romantic relationship but then I destroy the romantic relationship and I cant stop and its kind of destroying my life and Im kind of isolating myself because I dont want to destroy any more relationships, but I want to be around people and I dont really know what to do. I dont know how to fix it and the thought of it all makes me spiral. Its just kind of a mess. I dont know if anyone else has had this kind of experience, or knows how to work it out, but any advice would be super appreciated. Im so lost.
my advice is to find a way to feel satisfied with your own company rather than looking for it elsewhere, there is a difference between being lonely and being alone :)
@kidsupertramp
We just want to be close and dedicate ourselves to others so I can very easily understand how volatile and normal is to go towards romantic in friendships naturally without intent or premeditation. It happens because "we warm up to people" and as we get to know them we want to be even closer...I am like that myself so nothing wrird about that...
