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Feeling Like A Burden

User Profile: Mellietronx
Mellietronx May 27th, 2017

Do you sometimes feel like your friends will get tired of you and your issues?

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User Profile: justanemptynobody
justanemptynobody May 27th, 2017

@Mellietronx

More always than sometimes, and not only for friends, also not restricted to issues but anything I may say in particular and... in short yes.

I think it's a pretty common feeling. We're afraid we may be bothering people with our stuff and the fear comes from the fact that people are jerks and do, indeed, get bothered by our stuff when there's too much or they have something else to do.

User Profile: sunshineKitty58
sunshineKitty58 May 27th, 2017

@Mellietronx I hope that youre not feeling this way, as although now things are hard they will get better over time as you heal and grow and then one day you will be able to give back to those who supported you in this difficult time with the anxiety. I know its uncomfortable to lean on others when you cant do much back for them but maybe just let them know how grateful you are, make them cake or food, food is a great gift lol, or whatever you like to show your gratitude. :) No one is ever a burden unless they can help themselves and choose not to, but you cant help this and so you deserve their help :) as I say, one day you can give back to them

User Profile: CoinFountain
CoinFountain May 27th, 2017

@Mellietronx

I do especially since there's been a long duration of not being able to pay for things or return many favors.