How to change

@StarlightEma

It's a good start that you are aware that you need change. Something I would suggest you to think about is answering where you are now and where you want to be and what actions can you do to take you there. 

Hey, thanks for sharing that. It sounds like you're in this in-between space, knowing you want something different, but not quite sure what that looks like yet. That can feel really confusing and even a little frustrating. You're definitely not alone in that feeling... a lot of people go through moments like this. Just being aware that you want change is already a meaningful step 💛

@StarlightEma Hey!! I TOTALLY get how you're feeling. It must be tough to want to change but to don't know where to start. I've been there many times... sometimes figuring out "how" takes a lot of time. It might help you by reflecting your actions from the day and thinking about what's stressing you the most. Don't try to rush yourself though !! Changing is a big step and you are not alone in this, I know it will get better. Have a nice day and good luck on your journey!!

@StarlightEma Hello! I think we all get to a point where we want to change our lives due to a number of reasons. You already made the first step of deciding you want to change your life and you probably don't like your life as it is now. So maybe you should examine what you like and what you do'nt like in your life and change it accordingly. A good idea would be to examine your life through different aspects, like education, work and relationhsips(personal life) and see what changes you want to make to each field. That's just a personal point of view. I'm sure you wil achieve what you want in your life!

@StarlightEma

I have been through this, sometimes I just start with accepting that I am stuck. Simple changes in the routine or work can help. Like going for walk in the evening, helps me. Journaling helos me. Talking to a friend who can understand me makes a difference. Make an action plan, even though it seems very difficult, break it into small tasks, slowly start working on one task at a time. Eventually things will change. Sometimes, it might take longer but it's completely okay. Don't blame yourself, only self love.

@StarlightEma

I have been through this, sometimes I just start with accepting that I am stuck. Simple changes in the routine or work can help. Like going for walk in the evening, helps me. Journaling helos me. Talking to a friend who can understand me makes a difference. Make an action plan, even though it seems very difficult, break it into small tasks, slowly start working on one task at a time. Eventually things will change. Sometimes, it might take longer but it's completely okay. Don't blame yourself, only self love.

I’m right there with you, buddy <3

Hi @StarlightEma ,

Feeling stuck wanting change without knowing how is common. It's like wanting to go somewhere new but not knowing where. Many experience this when they want something different but haven't figured out the specifics. i want you to know that you are not alone in this. We as a community are here for you.

@StarlightEma hello & yes  i have been through it's like you heart know that you need change but the part of your mind which I like to say the back of your fear subconsciousness tells us otherwise , this caused anxiety , impostor syndrome , major fear and self doubt , I had to take a step back and really work on my self doubts first then I had to write put all my ideas and wants out on paper or a board to really see it , eventually I work my way through it . But i say this to tell you its noraml to feel stuck , its normal to feel afraid when stepping into the unknown . I wish you the best in your journey I hope you find your purpose . 

@StarlightEma

Hey thank you for sharing this with us it must be hard to be honest and open up like this! I understand what you mean when you say you’re stuck in life and it must be really difficult for you at right now. Not knowing what’s going to happen and how your doing to move past things is really annoying and scary! We are all here for you 💛💛💛💛💛