How to change

the feeling of being stuck is so relatable like I want to do something different but you are stuck and you feel so helpless in it. sometimes you just dont need to change anything but knowing that something needs to be changed is a great step towards growth.

@StarlightEma Hi! That feeling is more common than you might think, and you're definitely not alone in it. A lot of people hit a point where they know something needs to shift, but the how and what feels unclear or overwhelming. 

@StarlightEma dear you are not alone in this. I can understand and relate to you the feeling of changing things and then uncertainty about how to change. I had this experience then i had to browse online about my problem and their solutions I came on this platform people tackling with same stuff had conversations with them and i learnt things from them as well. At the end of the day if you are trying to change its in itself a success because you are always raising the bar. 🌟❤️One step at a time. 

@StarlightEma

Must be really difficult to feel that way, especially when a particular rut lasts for a long time, but everyone goes through phases of being stuck and not being able to do much. recovery from such things takes time and patience and can be frustrating.
Wish you the best of luck starlight and please be gentle with yourself along the way!💝

@StarlightEma

yes it happens that you feel stuck and not progressing it is kind of normal. but you must sometimes wait for sunrise to see your path sometimes even in walking in dark can help you even if you do not know the direction but you know you are moving forward and only this matters the most, "moving forward"

Yea . Since the whole brain follows neuroplasticity approach . We can change but it requires a lot of efforts. :)

Hello, yes I've had similar experience before. When you are feeling stuck and something feels "wrong" with life. I think it's good that you are picking up on these signals it shows you are in tune with your emotions. For me, what helped, is following my gut, and what feels right to me. And then trying to implement some small changes in my daily life, to go in a direction I want to follow

Heya, I understand you, it can be frustrating to feel like 'you're nowhere in life' or 'you don't have control', but trust me, it's never too late to turn your life around in an instant! You just need to have the right kind of motivation. Take care of yourself and don't worry <//3

Heyy ,it's completely okay to experience this feeling of getting stuck in life . Wanting to change your life but not knowing what exactly to do is a really confusing feeling and we often get frustrated.

I also experienced something similar at the start of my 11th grade when my marks suddenly dropped and i didn't have any idea how to improve knowing I had to do something to make it better . At that time, what helped me was an inner motivation, a motivation that doesn't come from your parents' 'motivational whatsapp messages' or your teachers' "daily motivational scolding" . I had to find a purpose for my life. When I took psychology as a subject in 12th,I finally found what I had to do with my life. (yes it took me two years to find my purpose) That's what truly motivated me to bring changes, it just came upon me naturally what all I had to change .

Hope my story helps you in some way. I'm not telling you to follow my steps but to take it as an example and create your own journey. You are responsible for your own changes and you get to decide how you want to change yourself:)

So good luckk with your life and I hope my message helped you in some way ☺️

@StarlightEma

Hello 💙 thank you for sharing that it takes courage to admit when you’re feeling stuck. A lot of people go through moments like this, where you know deep down you want something different but the “what” or “how” isn’t clear yet. You’re definitely not alone in that feeling. Sometimes even small reflections or baby steps can help open the bigger picture. Do you want to talk a little about what parts of your life you feel most ready or curious to change?