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How to change

User Profile: StarlightEma
StarlightEma March 6th, 2022

Hello! I think I'm kinda stuck where I am now, knowing I want to change my life, but still trying to figure out how I want it to change... anyone had similar experience?

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User Profile: Passingcloud247
Passingcloud247 April 20th

@StarlightEma

Hey, feeling stuck can be really hard, especially when you’re unsure of where you’re headed. It’s okay for things to take time, even though the waiting and uncertainty can feel frustrating. You’re not alone in this..we’re here with you, and you’ve got this.

User Profile: Aliha029
Aliha029 May 9th

@StarlightEma 

it's definitely relatable, at some point it does feel like we need to change something in our lives. I'm too experiencing this lately, but honestly can't tell where should I start from.

@StarlightEma

Hi, StarlightEma. Thanks for sharing. I can definitely relate to what you wrote, which is why I clicked on it. It's definitely hard wanting very much to make a change in your life, yet not knowing how to go about it, for whatever reason. Sometimes those reasons can seem large and looming. Feeling stuck like that can really hurt.

I just wanted to let you know that I relate, and that you are not alone in this at all. I know a lot of people who are in a similar boat. 

Thanks for sharing what's been on my mind as well. Wishing you the change that you desire. 

Have a good day!

User Profile: AvoAmy10
AvoAmy10 July 27th

Hello! Yes, I have experienced wanting to change my life around to be happier in my days. Think about what exactly you'd like to change and think of ways to change your routine. For me, I start by how I start my day. If someone is struggling to get out of bed, plan to do something you enjoy doing within the first hour of being awake. An example would be going outside for morning sun or fresh air and thinking of the simple little things like hearing the birds chirping. It is little simple changes that can make the biggest impacts. I wish you well on your journey to finding change in your life and/or routine! 🙂

User Profile: JustTeaToday
JustTeaToday October 15th

@StarlightEma

You are not alone.  Being stuck happens to all of us.  One very valuable lesson I learned is..."don't stay there."  Do not stay stuck.

There are different things in life that makes us stuck.  Everyone has different things that make them stuck.  Recognize that this is happening.  That is the very first step. 

You might not know or understand what the cause is yet, but some acceptance can help a lot in sorting everything out on seeing the bigger picture, to step back, and make plans on how to get unstuck.

You are capable.  You are the master of your life.

User Profile: Neyix
Neyix October 16th

@StarlightEma

Hello(:

I understand how you must be feeling. Just know that you are not alone in this(;

User Profile: Peace1Mercy1
Peace1Mercy1 October 24th

@StarlightEma

I think it's a beautiful thing that you recognize you want to change your life, even if you're still figuring out what that change looks like. Sometimes, the hardest part isn't knowing that we want something different, but allowing ourselves the time and space to discover what that means for us. You don't have to have your whole life figured out right now, and it's okay if your path looks a little different from what you expected.

My advice would be to start small: think about one thing you'd like to feel more of in your life, whether it's peace, confidence, purpose, or happiness, and take one little step toward it.

User Profile: Peace1Mercy1
Peace1Mercy1 October 24th

@StarlightEma

I think it's a beautiful thing that you recognize you want to change your life, even if you're still figuring out what that change looks like. Sometimes, the hardest part isn't knowing that we want something different, but allowing ourselves the time and space to discover what that means for us. You don't have to have your whole life figured out right now, and it's okay if your path looks a little different from what you expected.

My advice would be to start small: think about one thing you'd like to feel more of in your life, whether it's peace, confidence, purpose, or happiness, and take one little step toward it.

User Profile: femmepique
femmepique October 24th

@StarlightEma Heyy! thank you for sharing what you're going through. it takes a lot of self-awareness to recognize that you want a change even when it feels hard to picture what that looks like. feeling stuck and uncertain can be really heavy, and it's completely okay to not have everything figured out right now. be gentle with yourself as you take your time. you definitely aren't alone in feeling this way. Wishing you all the best on your journey!

User Profile: Peace1Mercy1
Peace1Mercy1 3 days ago

@StarlightEma You just need to focus on yourself, and move forward