I can't sleep...
my sister keeps saying she wishes i was dead, she wants me dead, etc. etc.....she has the means and a son that is criminal. he was arrested for having a loaded unregistered gun in his rtrunk 11 years ago while selling drugs...he still hangs out with the same group of people,,,,see why i can't sleep
wasrear ended?!i am exhaused but i cant sleep. could be beuse i
@azureBranch4484
Hi, I know that feeling all to well. The more we think about it, the worse it can seem. Its usually just a perception though. Im in a situation with my landlord, and wondering if he would try to hurt or kil me just to get me out, so he doesnt have to bring my apartment up to code. Its a terrible feeling. But to overcome it, I trust in mt prayers for protection. I do have a lot of sleepless nights, and the shows on tv, and bad things on the news dont help a bit. Does your sister have good reason to harm you? Or maybe she is just one of those big mouths that say anything?
@juliak1968
my mother is old and i think the bottom line is that she thinks if she gets rid of me, she will inherit my mother's home completely. her son recently said to me that he thought he was getting the home. he is not even in line for it. also there is some money.
@azureBranch4484
Do you have somebody you really trust to help? Keep in mind, some people we trust the most are the ones that actually end up hurting us the most. Ive learned that. My x, my mom have both takin me for all I was worth. Im lucky to be alive. If you have money, you should make plans to find a safe place to live, out of reach from the evil. They say most people that get harmed, did have the fealing they were in danger. You cant sleep because your instincts are telling you to be aware, and to prepare. ??
@juliak1968
I have people I can trust, but I don't want to get them involved because my sister might harm them too. As far as demons go.,,I believe in evit. My sister and mother are chock full of demons and they don't even know it. I do things to cast them away, but inevitably I could lose. You scare me, but I know you are right.
@azureBranch4484
I don't want to get so far away that I lose my family's inheritance. My daughter has a huge student loan and it would help. But I did wonder tonight if I should completely cut them off. My sister is too dangerous and is threatening things right and left. I am very scared.
@azureBranch4484
Im very sorry. My intention is not to scare you. We have to be brave, but also we have to not be complacent enough to just sit by and ignore our insticts when they are trying to alert us. Your situation scares me because, he must have picked up on parts of conversations about them getting the house. My mom has a jesabel spirit, (look it up) she is pure evil and it took me 45 years to figure it out. When we have good inside us, we learn to avoid evil, evil rebels against us.
Evil wants us to be quiet. We must be smart, and ask for God to help us. The more i read the bible, the more i understand that our world is full of evil, and only God can totally protect us.
@juliak1968
my understanding is that the more you are a witness for god, the more evil you get coming your way. as my church says.... higher levels newer devils. satan doesnt waste his time on people that have no consequence for god.you must constantly be in prayer and thats where i fall short,,,,,,
@azureBranch4484
Yes, i agree. I have two very religioys freinds and they sometimes stop in to give me a care package. Ever since i met them, the attacks have seemed constant. In my head my perceptions, nothing and i mean nothing is working out for me, and im a good person and better communicator; so it hust doesnt make any sence, and cant be explained
@azureBranch4484
I have heard stories such as yours concerning situations such as rent control Pretty scary. Have you reported your fears to any authorities? I reported my fears not too long ago to the local police about my sister wanting me dead. An officer said that is not a threat. She would have to say she is going to kill me. I disagree. Once she said on the phone to my mother at least 1000x that she wished I was dead. She was screaming it to my mother on the phone. I could hear it from 10 feet away. When my mother got off the phone. I said to my mother that I am uncomfortable with her saying she wished I was dead. You know what my mother said to me then? "She never said that." My mother is so bullied by my sister she is too afraid to say anything bad about my sister even with something so obvious! My mother is also not 100% mentally at this point so I must forgive her a bit here.
@azureBranch4484
I havent turnef him in because im disabled and have no backup plan. He is a felon with a big safe full of guns, last weekend he was shooting birds from his slider on the deck we share. He hasnt paid any taxes on the over 8 years of rent i paid. The days after i confronted him about me being tired of waiting all these years for repairs, he told me his mom is taking my apartment april 1st, and that "its gonna hapoen!" He also sai "my sister works for the state, and this is gonna happen"
Im to unhealthy for this, to afraid to call police too
@juliak1968
i would say away from local government. start with federal.
@azureBranch4484
fbi
@azureBranch4484
Wow, Im not sure
@azureBranch4484
i may be able to sleep now i will be back tomorrow
@azureBranch4484
Ok, have a good one. Sleep well 😚
@juliak1968
Sorry, that was an embarrasing typo
Good night
@azureBranch4484
Ooops, i meant 😊
@azureBranch4484
Like? ATF
@azureBranch4484
I wish I had a way to help you. Im not sure how you can ensure your saftey. Does your mom have a will? Who is the executor of the estate if she passes?
@juliak1968
it is my brother with me secondary. about a year ago my sister was secondary, but my mother changed it because she felt my sister wpuld not be able tobe fair, my sister and her son register their carsat my mothers hoyse and they do not live there. my mother has asked them to change that but they say to her ok but never do it, do you think they could have more power because of the auto registration concerning the home? my nephew was just the cause of a rear end accident where someone was hurt and their attorney tried to implicate my mother because the car was registered at her address.
@azureBranch4484
Im not sure about the legalities, wish i knew. I can tell you that my x's sister was executive and mysteriously OD-ed, and shortly afterward, my father in law passed so my x got 2 million. Also my x got my house, and she married a (used to be) freind of mine, he passed last year and my x cashed in for the 3rd time. Get legal advice on line researching. Find out, but dont talk about it or your sister might feel the need to hasten her evil plans. I hate money, ive made other people rich. I suffer every day and the only pair of pants i have are ripped in the back so ive put ducktape on the inside. Yes, it seems like the evil people do well. We poor people suffer greatly. I pray God will reward me for not hating all who did me wrong. I feel forsaken, and its destroying my health, and my WILL
@azureBranch4484
@juliak1968
Very funny. I must do some things today...I am a slow mover so better start now. thank you for your input and moral support. I will probably be back this evening.
@azureBranch4484
Ok, hope we chat again soon. Take good care
@juliak1968
Read about Jezebel Spirit. So do you think my sister sounds like one? I do from some brief reading on the internet.
@azureBranch4484
It sounds like it. My mother screams like that even in a store or anywhere. At first i just thought she has no class, but then i saw in her eyes, i realized i dont even know her any more. She played with evil spirits and now she haa a really bad one inside her. Pray for tgem, but dont trust or get close enough for them to harm us. I had to stop being near my mom. Its been three years now ive had only one time i called her and she was bad then to. Ive morned the loss of her
@juliak1968
Thanks. What do you mean by close to them. Physically?
@azureBranch4484
I mean closely involved in activities, or business, or any ways that could put you close to being vulnerable on the edge os the metaphorical cliff, because they might push you over
@juliak1968
ugh
@azureBranch4484
Characteristics of the Jezebel Spirit
1. Refuses to admit guilt or wrong
A Jezebel spirit is never wrong, unless it is a temporary admittance of guilt to gain favor with someone. To accept responsibility would violate the core of insecurity and pride from which it operates. When a Jezebel apologizes it is never in true repentance or acknowledgment of wrongdoing but rather Im sorry your feelings were hurt.
2. Takes credit for everything
While a strong trait of Jezebel is to never take responsibility for his/her wrong actions or behavior, he or she also is quick to take credit for benefits for which he/she contributed no effort.
3. Uses people to accomplish its agenda
The Jezebel spirit lets others do its dirty work. The Jezebel gets another persons emotions stirred up, then lets that person go into a rage. The Jezebel sits back looking innocent, saying Who me? What did I do? This behavior makes it difficult for even the most ardent truth seekers to pin one down. The Jezebel spirit is clever in its agenda.
4. Withholds information
This is a form of control. A Jezebel wields power over you by knowing something you dont know in a situation. In the eyes of a Jezebel, having information you dont have is a powerful weapon of control.
5. Talks in confusion
It is impossible to converse with a Jezebel in logic. One pastor wrote a six-page letter to his elders about a situation in the church. The context was so vague that no one was without confusion. This is a way to maintain control and domination. When confronting a Jezebel, the subject may be changed five times in one minute. Confusion keeps them ‘undiscovered and unexposed.
6. Volunteers for anything
A Jezebel volunteers in order to establish control. He or she seemingly has endless (nervous) energy and eagerly looks for opportunities to be in charge of projects. Although he or she will work hard, His/her motive is never pure, and eventually his/her secret agenda cannot be hidden.
7. Lies
A Jezebel lies convincingly. No one can lie better than he/she can. He or she can turn on the charm and make you believe blue is red. He or she always fools those whom hes just met while those who have been victimized by his/her tactics stand by helplessly. The fact that Jezebel can look you in the eye and lie just shows how strong and adamant this rebellious and recalcitrant spirit is.
8. Ignores people
A classic ploy of a controller is to ignore you when you disagree with him/her. This tactic is frequently used by leaders when someone doesnt agree with their plans, and they isolate the person by ignoring him/her. Some in these situations have been ignored for months, just because they chose not to be a puppet and say to every idea or whim. This puts the person out of the leaders grace and forces him/her to either come around to the leaders way of thinking or be indefinitely ignored. One is not free to disagree with a controller.
9. Never gives credit or shows gratitude
A Jezebel will rarely acknowledge another persons actions, not even for something that turned out to greatly benefit the Jezebel. He or she just cannot bring himself/herself to say thank you or to acknowledge that someone else did something right. There are those who have gone out of their way to bless a Jezebel by being the catalyst of sending him/her on a trip or giving a gift. Yet never will there be a thank you. This again puts the controller in a position of power.
10. Criticizes everyone
This is a characteristic of a controller. He or she has to be the one who looks good, so he/she will quickly sharply criticize anyone who makes a suggestion or plan. Even though he/she likes the plan, he/she can only criticize it because the idea did not originate from him/her. Criticizing others elevates the controller in his/her own mind.
11. Oneupmanship
A person with a Jezebel spirit will always upstage another person. He or she feels threatened by anyone who dares to steal the limelight or anyone who is a threat to his/her power and control. If you are with such a person and tell of your accomplishment or victory, you can be assured he or she will quickly tell of something he/she has accomplished.
12. Sequesters information
A Jezebel loves to be in control of information. If there is ever a situation where information is important, he/she will push to be the first to know it. He or she seems to know everything about everyone. Where he/she gets all his/her information is beyond comprehension, but he/she can dictate to you data and details about peoples lives and actions in mass quantities.
13. Uses information
A Jezebel uses information as a leverage for power and then shares tidbits with you, often things told him/her in confidence. This gives him/her a sense of power, even to the point of trying to impress people by knowing things that others do not.
14. Talks incessantly
Many people talk habitually, but a Jezebel uses talking as a form of control. In a typical conversation, he/she does all the talking, whether it is about sports, the weather or the Kingdom of God. Because of this form of control, he/she is unable to receive input from anyone in his/her life. All conversation with him/her is one-sided. You are doing the listening.
15. Spiritualizes everything
When a controller is confronted, he or she commonly spiritualizes the situation, explaining it off on God. This prevents him/her from owning up to responsibility required of him/her. The implication is always, Youve got a problem; I dont.
16. Is insubordinate
A Jezebel never takes the side of the employer or a person in authority, unless it is a temporary action to make him/her look good. He or she often will take credit for someone elses idea. His/her main desire is for power and control. There is no conscience when an opportunity for recognition presents itself.
17. Is pushy and domineering
A person with a Jezebel spirit pressures you to do things, seemingly ripping from you your right to choose or make a decision for yourself. He or she makes others feel as though they dont have enough sense to think for themselves.
18. Is clairvoyant
Many who operate with a spirit of control also have a clairvoyant spirit. A Jezebel has supernatural help in knowing and sensing information. If he or shee uses this against you, he/she may say I cant tell you how I know this. I just know it. This is not the Holy Spirit, but the help of a clairvoyant or familiar spirit. Clairvoyance may be defined as the power to perceive things that are out of the range of human senses.
19. Uses the element of surprise
A Jezebels main thrust is to be in control, and a large part of control is catching you off guard. Therefore, the element of surprise works well when he/she shows up a day early for a meeting, etc.
20. Sows seeds of discord
A Jezebel will continually belittle another person in the most subtle way. The strategy is to gain control by minimizing the value of another person. It is common for him/her to tell half-truths to implicate another person in your eyes. By sowing these seeds, he/she hopes (perhaps subconsciously) to eventually reap a harvest of destruction, improving his/her position of power.
21. Commands attention
A Jezebel likes to be the center of attention and doesnt like to see others recognized and lauded. When someone else is recognized, he or she will quickly undermine the persons accomplishments verbally.
22. Is vengeful
Since a Jezebel is never wrong, if you contradict or confront one, get ready to become his/her worst enemy. As long as you are in agreement with him/her, all is fine. But if you confront or challenge him/her, then look out. You are the target of his/her fiercest venom. A Jezebel will stop at nothing to destroy your reputation.
23. Attempts to make you look like youre the Jezebel
A Jezebel spirit is difficult to pin down. If the person is near to being confronted, he or she will skillfully twist the entire situation, trying to make the innocent person look like the one who is attempting to control. As always, the Jezebel will do anything to look like the one who is right.
24. Insinuates disapproval
A Jezebel will often imply disapproval to those under his/her control. The controlled person feels no freedom to express an opinion, for fear of disapproval. This often manifests in a marriage or in a working environment.
25. Knows it all
A Jezebel is usually blatant regarding his/her knowledge of everything. Quick to express his/her opinion in any area, he or she leaves little room for anyone to point out the other side of an issue. He or she has made idols of his/her opinions.
26. Is ambitious
The Jezebel has strong desire, but all for self. I want what I want when I want it, describes his/her worship of self-will. A Jezebel leader will never use the words, We have a vision, but rather, My vision is thus and so.
27. Gift giving
Gift giving is a form of manipulation a Jezebel uses that always makes you feel obligated to him/her. It also compromises the victim in speaking direct and confrontive truth. Naturally, not everyone who gives gifts is guilty of control, but gift giving is a tactic used by those who have a need to control.
28. Is independent
No one has input in a Jezebels life. He or she fraternizes with no one unless it is to get you to cooperate with his/her agenda.
29. Is religious
A Jezebel dwells in the local church but doesnt like authority unless he/she is in the position of authority.
30. Hides
We all want to believe that the person with a Jezebel spirit is delivered. The person may seem normal for a period, exhibiting none of the classic traits. Then suddenly without warning a situation will arise, once again with the spirit taking control and wreaking havoc over lives. Hopefully, true repentance will come. Only then will the person be delivered.
The good news is that God gives each individual person the freedom of choice. Everyone has the freedom to make decisions, to make mistakes, to think for himself/herself, to communicate, to like or dislike and to express his/her taste and creativity.
Those who control are in worship of their own wills and their own ways. Thank God for freedom.
If you recognize any of these traits in your own life, begin by praying this prayer:
I renounce and bind this demon of Jezebel, and I pull down this stronghold in my life.
Through the Holy Spirit I will live by your standard of righteousness, holiness and conduct. Open my eyes and cause Your light to expose any darkness, and help me to walk in humility and truth.
In Jesus Name,
Amen!
I'm sorry you have to go through this. Maybe you can talk to your mother and ask whether she has already made a will or not. If your sister knew she inherited only what your mother decided to leave her, she wouldn't act this way, and you would feel safer. Speaking about sleeping, I recommend to try CBD oil or gummies (you can find out more about such products [spam link removed]). And I agree with other members that it would be great if you had a person whom you can trust.
@ErikaS
Thank you. My mother changed her will last year. The will really didn't change but the Power of Attorney and the Health Care Surrogate changed. On these I became the POA and the HCS because I convinced my mother that my sister could not be trusted to treat my daughter fairly. (I gave my share to my daughter to help pay her huge student loan down some). I said this because my sister has done some very strange things to my daughter, the most recent being upon inviting my sister to my daughter's graduation from medical school. We were a bit wary to invite her due to her past actions, but we did and she said she would come.
The day before, I called her because I had not heard from her and she said she wasn't coming because my daughter is ugly and looks like a man!
My sister recently said I gave my inheritance to my daughter because I wanted to elevate my daughter's status above her children. No one needed to know what was even in the will. She told her son and now he is mad about this. It makes no difference to my sister or my nephew monetarily if I told my mother to give my share to my daughter.
My sisterr told my mother who is 86 that I had removed my sister from her will. I don't even know if a POA can do that! Of course I didn't and I have proof which is the will. My mother is half out of her mind for a few reasons and somewhat believes this and said to me ....did you actually do that? and my mother said she is going to sue me for that! I told my mother that she lied, but who knows what my mother is thinking at this point. I think my sister is trying to get my mother to rewrite her will and cut my daughter out. I don't know how to stop this. I could have my mother declared incompetent, but I hate to get involved in the legal system.
