I can’t stop thinking that my gf cheated on me
Whether it’s my low self esteem or distrust in her I can’t seem to not think that she hasn’t cheated on me.
There were a few incidences where she was hiding her phone from me.
The most recent time I asked her and she suddenly forgot her passcode and had to wipe clean everything. Turned out it was her moms birthday.
The biggest issue is me accusing her for the past few months and she’s getting really tired of it. Almost to the point of us breaking up a few times.
How can I stop thinking like this and are my thoughts valid?
@sensibleTree6039 It's sounds like you are very paranoid that you girlfriend is cheating on you. Why do you think that way? It seems like she hasn't done it, and instead happened from a past partner. It is hard to trust people when that has happened before. You should try sitting down and talking with her.
@tomatoesslapngl
Weve talked many times. Been together for 7 years with a kid. There’s just been a series of events in our relationship that made me think she has. Especially with her hiding her phone.
Hi @sensibleTree6039, it must be tough constantly thinking your girlfriend is cheating on you and not knowing whether it is true or if it is due to low self-esteem or distrust. Do you have any idea why you feel this way or why you seem to distrust her? Has she done anything to make you feel this way apart from hiding her phone from you?