If I could tell her....

@Mikathewolfdog I'm not an expert and I'm not guienus but I am a chiId.So here is my opinion, you seem like a very nice and thoughtful person.And if you are afraid of her thinking you are ''disgusting'' and ''scary'',then she clearly does not know you that well enough.(I think)....But in my opinion I think personaly, you should wait to save all your feelings and should express them to her when she is ready to hear it.Such as, maybey the first or second date.But not when you are trying to get her attition.So if I were you, I would probly get to know her better and if you already do then find something you and her both have in common then wait and see.I saw this in a movie once and the guy got the girl.....Just Say'in Good luck

@Mikathewolfdog At this moment, you are not sure what this person's reaction will be. The only way to find out, is if you tell her what you want to tell her upfront. The problem with that however, is that you are afraid of her reaction. This is completely understandable - you really want to tell her how you feel, but you are scared of what she'll do.

Think of it this way, if you don't tell her then you'll always have this nagging feeling that you have to tell her and you'll have the fear of rejection that comes with it. If you do tell her, then you'll know what her reaction is - if it's a positive reaction, then great, you succeeded; if it's a negative reaction, it will hurt but at least you know how she feels and you can stop thinking about it.