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User Profile: sensitivePeach4642
sensitivePeach4642 January 20th, 2021

My best friend is having new friend. She's the person who has a crush on my friend. I'm not too fond of new people and I'd like to take it slow but things are going to quickly. I feels like I'm going to lose my friend, my comfort zone, my place to be.

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User Profile: juliak1968
juliak1968 January 20th, 2021

@sensitivePeach4642

Maybe you can talk to your freind and tell why you are worried and or just make sure to say how you like being the best freind :-)

User Profile: ohwhaleohwhale
ohwhaleohwhale January 21st, 2021

@sensitivePeach4642

Hi, I'm new to this but heh anyways, my best advice would be to talk to your friend. I know it's super easy to just retreat into a corner because you think a friend is moving on/changing too fast without you (speaking from personal experience eh), but if this person is your best friend, they know you, they care about you and talking to them about how you are feeling will help and strengthen your friendship. I hope you and your friend figure things out! (also nice username)

User Profile: Shimmersofhope
Shimmersofhope January 22nd, 2021

It makes sense to feel anxious and overwhelmed by this, these are big things and like you said it sounds like you are out of your comfort zone! It may help to remember you can’t control your friends friends or crushes so these things are totally out of your control and it’s definitely not your fault ❤️