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User Profile: loopsdalazoops
loopsdalazoops January 20th, 2021

A little background I’m a highschooler in the United States Anyways the last few weeks I’ve had to watch a friend Get involved in a relationship where she’s being used And put in a dangerous situations Well I can do nothing but watch this has reeked havoc with my anxiety i’ve tried to reach out about my deteriorating mental state to my school counselors but the first time I actually opened up they dismissed it instead asking if I could tell them about someone I know my town is small and has limited mental health resources which means I’m trapped at the Moment I don’t really know what to do I have no family or friends to really fall on

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User Profile: WolfbloomAbby
WolfbloomAbby January 20th, 2021

@loopsdalazoops

Hey have you tried other people, besides your school counselors I mean?

I am so sorry this is happening! I'm sorry I am not great at giving advice but I know it will get better at some point. Stay strong 💙

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User Profile: loopsdalazoops
loopsdalazoops OP January 20th, 2021

Oh any discussion helps And I am trying to explore that option but again I live in a small town we don’t have any licensed therapist 

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User Profile: WolfbloomAbby
WolfbloomAbby January 20th, 2021

@loopsdalazoops

Oh wow! Maybe you could try online? Seven cups is good but some listeners don't respond. Some randomly go poof. So I don't suggest 7 cups for serious things.

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User Profile: WolfbloomAbby
WolfbloomAbby January 20th, 2021

@WolfbloomAbby

And if possible I'd like to be your friend.

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User Profile: loopsdalazoops
loopsdalazoops OP January 20th, 2021

Well I thank both of you kindly And yeah I’ve had two listeners kind of dip in the middle of conversation but if any of you message me I will talk 

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loopsdalazoops OP January 20th, 2021

Although I’m pretty sure only listeners can message people

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WolfbloomAbby January 20th, 2021

@loopsdalazoops

That is correct.

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WolfbloomAbby January 20th, 2021

@loopsdalazoops

No problem! And again, I'm sorry I don't know how to message on 7 cups unless engaged in a listener conversation. But yes, we can chat on this! ^^

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loopsdalazoops OP January 20th, 2021

Well thank you Although I said what the biggest problems were in the post I have issues maintain friendships due to abandonment and trust issues so whenever I do make a friend I tend to get close and it means a lot so seeing one of them go into something like that and only get worse as time goes on is crushing because I know it’s not gonna end well 

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User Profile: loopsdalazoops
loopsdalazoops OP January 20th, 2021

She’s going to end up In a really dark place by the end of this I can tell 

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User Profile: WolfbloomAbby
WolfbloomAbby January 20th, 2021

@loopsdalazoops

Just questioning, have you talked to her about it?

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WolfbloomAbby January 20th, 2021

@loopsdalazoops

It's okay if you feel uncomfortable, I can wait. I have some trust issues so I know how that feels. By the way, I'll be back online in a second. I'm going to clean the kitchen!

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loopsdalazoops OP January 20th, 2021

Alright

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