Kicked While Down

Yesterday, Tuesday was not a good day. I can’t pull any punches. This was not my worst day but i definitely had a mental breakdown again. My first breakdown was in June which i had written about and that one was like adding insult to injury. I feel like i am being kicked while i am down.

To give you some understanding what i mean, my old bank had tried contacting my wife and not me about OD fees or Overdraft fees. I tried talking to the person who left a vm on my phone and even going in to a local branch to try to remedy the situation. One i would have to go into the same branch to fix the issue and two they were only willing to take off $55 of fees that had been accruing on my account since July but the problem is i didnt realize charges were hitting my old account aa i changed banks and moved all accounts to that bank. But at least 4 things were hitting which made up a little over $400 but the fees alone were well over $300.

im not paying for something i was not aware of. Just a word of caution every 6 days my account was charged an OD fee. i had a mini melt down with the bank person. Cause the conversation shechad with the Officer at the oroginating bank was not good and from her voice i knew it would be bad.

so i feel so lost and hopeless in my life, my finances, my marriage. I don’t know how get up on my feet when im being pushed back down! 🥺😔😩😭