Over worrying for hours making me feel sick
Hi Im new here and so glad I found this website in my dire need of help!
This may sound stupid and ridiculous but how do I stop my horrible through from telling me my friend hates me or will never talk to me again?
Shes messaged me once early this morning ( I have an 18 month old she has a 9 week old )
saying she didnt message me yesterday Cos she was unwell but the reply was shorter than normal and then I replied back early this morning yet still no reply. I know shes busy and she struggles daily too I just feel like she hates me and will never talk to me again. Part of me knows this sounds ridiculous and shes probably having a bad day she will message me when she can especially with having a a baby but the other half over rules it and is like ‘ well youve annoyed her by doing something so thats it youve lost her ‘
am I going insane??
@AnxiousEm9 If her baby is nine weeks old and she is still on maternity leave, she most likely doesn't have the free time to be able to talk for awhile. PLEASE don't think that I am trying to cut you down by saying that. I'm not a mother or even graduated, but I know what it feels like. I like to talk to my best friend everyday, but I always have to remember that she has her own life and schedule as well.
I know how she feels my 18 month old is crazy and takes alot of my attention but I just worry Cos she usually messages me and shes not opened my messages. Its nice to get it out Cos I think my boyfriends sick of me asking him all the time and reassuring me but she did send a short and sweet message and she put on fb yesterday she was struggling when she does that she shuts off its her own personal help pattern she says but in return shutting me out makes me believe Ive done something wrong xx
@warmheartedCar3694
