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Relationship trouble

User Profile: CoyoteManJimmy98
CoyoteManJimmy98 October 16th, 2021

I am a 22-year-old computer science major and also play a couple instruments. I’ve been wanting a new girlfriend since my last toxic relationship ended. But it’s been a year and a half and dating has not been working. My hormones are raging for intimacy so badly that I cannot focus on my classes nor music. I’m having so much trouble connecting with women my age and am getting embarrassed and frustrated. What do I do?

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User Profile: braveavian
braveavian October 16th, 2021

I think its not the best time for a relationship for u rn. Maybe build some emotional independence first and with time you'll find someone. Probably not a good idea rush into any relationship when you're desperate or vulnerable. Youre only 22, embrace that single life homie.

User Profile: GauravForYouAgain
GauravForYouAgain October 22nd, 2021

Awwww.. I can relate to your issue. But believe me ever dark night is followed by a bright sunny day and for you i am sure its just around the corner.

You need to have trust and faith in yourself, someone somewhere is their for you and you will get to meet at right time. Nothing happens before or after.

User Profile: ThePumpkinGalXeis
ThePumpkinGalXeis October 22nd, 2021

@CoyoteManJimmy98

Hello, your sexual needs and desire for a healthy relationship are both perfectly acceptable. But you do not want your sexual desires to lead you into another unhealthy relationship. Take your time getting to know individuals because you're only 22 years old. Connection and intimacy will fall into place when you meet the perfect woman. Just keep going, and best of luck in your dating life and academics :)

User Profile: TransAm85
TransAm85 October 22nd, 2021

@CoyoteManJimmy98 Honey, I am 36 yrs old and after all the stuff I know now, I wish I could be 22 again. Relationships don't work at that age b/c ur still figuring urself out and the way this generation is going, kids are going to have more mental health issues at a younger age than ever! It's so sad! Stay in school and have fun .. women come and go during this period so don't feel bad if she doesn't text or call u back or "like" ur post. Girls play mind games like crazy when they're young like that b/c they're so insecure w/themselves .. Just do you.