Sad and tired
My husband and I are struggling to find a way out for our 13-year old daughter. Since April this year she started cutting and attempted sucide. She was hospitalized for a week in a mental hospital. Since then her mood becomes worsened. She keeps cutting (even though we made our house simpler so it's more difficult for her to find tools to hurt herself, but still). Every thing we do for her is considered as retaliation by our daughter. She can accept that we want to help her to get bette. We don't see any hope in this issue.
Try therapy! It helped me when I was self harming
You and your family are in my prayers. I know how difficult it can be to help a loved one who is refusing help. You need to get an expert or therapist involved step by step. I pray your daughter decides to accept the help,live and support your are providing her with.