Too much to handle
My emotions and anxiousness is becoming unbearable. I’m very anxious in my relationship and I’m always asking if he’s cheated or if he likes other girls and stuff because i always feel threatened. I never used to be like this, it’s only the past couple weeks I’ve been terrible. I get a bad thought and I have to tell my partner cos otherwise it sits in my head. Because I always ask if he’s done this and that and I ask how’s messaging him and what he’s watching etc, does this make me a bad girlfriend??
@louisefo123 It does not make you a bad girlfirend because we all feel insecurities at times. The fact that you are asking about this shows that you care.
You said this happened in the past few weeks, do you know if something triggered it or was there another event that happened? I do not know the full details of your situation but try to be patient with yourself as I do not think anxiety and guilt will help the anxiety disappear or make the situation better
Well I added his friend who is a girl on Snapchat, and after seeing her stories I thought she was really pretty which made me feel even worse about myself and I felt threatened in my relationship, and since then it’s been bad so I think that triggered it
I've been through this too! I thought I'm toxic and bad girlfriend but my boyfriend said no I'm okay. I told him that I have trust issues and anxiety so he understand. By communication we didn't argue to much like before. He start to making me calm and then answering my questions. First of all, you need to figure out what made you anxious in the past weeks, then try to talk to him it's help. Sometimes we just need to communicate and open up 😄.
Yes exactly! I’m lucky my boyfriend is very supportive, as yours sounds very supportive as well. It’s very hard thinking you’re a bad girlfriend. Especially because I never was like this before and now I’m constantly insecure and paranoid
