anxiety this past week
My anxiety was kinda bad Thrusday because I had feeings for this guy but we are just friends which I now realize its fine i don't want to ruin the friendship. but i am more so dealing with lonelniess I want a boyfriend but then i am content with being single .I worry of some how saboatiging the next relationship i get in if i ever do cause i don't have male friends to really form one as of right now I am going to try to talk to my threapist about this i went through a break up a year ago and i think i developed this fear of going through another break up when i understand that some relationships aren't meant to be its more so just understanding how to stop this anxiety from happening if i were to start dating again.
@kitkat34567
Hi, I'm afraid that the dreadful truth is that most relationships end in a breakup. And it's often so painful that we try and avoid it happening again - for obvious reasons that doesn't work well for anyone.
We are made to be in relationships, regardless.
@DavidEss that is true i am just trying to get over the fear but its hard right now a relationship probably wouldn't work since i am still trying to get a job.
@kitkat34567
Yes, safety and security, in terms of a place to live and money to get by, often have to come first.
Mazlow's hierarchy.
Hello everyone
I have remained strong my entire life.. I cannot take the overwhelming anxiety that I've faced lately. While doing all things right, being grateful and thankful I'm suffering badly. But also l, I'm tired. I'm the strongest one in my family and we are all suffering some hard times.. Today was by far the worst day this year of 2019. I'm dealing with a very ill narcissistic, abusive, jealous family member and I'm so distraught about it because it's vile mistreatment to me. I'm grateful that I'm still being positive but very worried that I will not be very much longer.
Any good words, positive feedback is great. I'm willing to chat I just need a little support from anyone who understands. Even if just a quote. I almost feel humiliated that I'm writing this, but this is my last draw. Very tired but I'm giving up and don't feel good about this. I do not seek attention, I am telling the truth as this is so serious to me. This is my life now and how I feel now-I wouldn't wish anyone hurt and anxiety this way.
Thanks for reading. Any encouragement helps even a thumbs up... I feel alone and a little sad to feel that. I really hope everyone is doing at least alright if not great!
@SeeTheStarsShine. Even the amazing people get drained. It does get overwhelming and everyone needs to time to recharge.
@SeeTheStarsShine might want to post that on a seperate post sorry but i find it rude to post this if it has nothing to do with my post i wanted help with
@kitkat34567 I would say take your time in learning about the person you meet. Try not to have feelings for someone who has not shown you consistency. You need someone who is dependable and someone you can feel stable with.
@Temesgen9 yeah i realize that i learned not to tell someone right away that i like them
@kitkat34567 not telling is one good point & actually not liking them is a better option. If you didn't like them so quickly, you will not have the option to tell them or not. Don't easily like someone is what I am trying to say. Take the time to really see them.
@Temesgen9 yeah i am talking to some people on bumble but idk meeting up scares me since their strangers
@kitkat34567 try meeting people at a community service event like volunteering.
@Temesgen9 okay
