do they love me
i met someone online and we are now both attatched to one another. but would they still feel the same way if i told them my dark side? i dont know what to do
@FlamingRainbow
Oh so you want to confess them about your dark side.
It must feel anxious thinking about how they would react but I know you know the person and would know what is the right thing for you.
Just a little introspection may help you how they would react.
All the best :)
@FlamingRainbow I think everyone has a dark side. It's just whether that person acknowledges that part of them or not. Maybe your person could be thinking the same thing you're thinking: they are also scared of showing you their true-selves. Just test the water, say a little thing to see how they react to it: 1-2 sentences that doesn't open up you to too much vulnerability. For example: "I used to went through this... I'm struggling with this..." If they try to bring you down or judge you, they are not your person and you deserve better.
I feel like people who is more self-aware of their dark side will be more compassionate towards other's dark side. If they don't understand, it doesn't mean you don't deserve to be loved or that you are flawed in some way. It just means they need to be more mature lol.