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im unwanted, even on 7cups

User Profile: ahhlo
ahhlo February 3rd, 2022

theres no where anyone wants to be, everyone wishes i would go away even on 7cups. in the sharing circle, they dont respond when i post, and they ignore me and then when someone else posts, they immediately respond, and are so happy that they are there because now they dont have to look at my posts anymore, and on the forum [] keeps posting the same message i think she wants to delete my account, i wish that there could just be one place where people dont wish i was gone and were nice to me

[edited by EmmaE - confidentiality]

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User Profile: strawberryseedoil
strawberryseedoil February 3rd, 2022

Hey, listen. I get that feeling that nobody wants you around or that you’re better off away from everyone, but you add a lot to people’s lives, even if you’re just alive for yourself. You’re not alone, people care about you. And I’m here to listen.

User Profile: GoldenNest2727
GoldenNest2727 February 3rd, 2022

I care about you, too! The Sharing Circle is pretty strict about what can and can't be said, so that could be why you didn't get any replies. Have you tried the other support/chat groups? Sometimes the conversations move so fast that it's hard to keep up, so don't worry if you don't get a quick convo going immediately. Try to hang with it and continue interacting if you can. I'm sorry you're feeling left out. It's tough to feel like you're on the outside.

User Profile: EmmaE
EmmaE February 3rd, 2022

@ahhlo

hello!

i'm so sorry that you feel this way. i can assure you that no one wishes you would go away, especially not on 7 cups. all of us here want the best for you and care about you and your well-being. you deserve to access support <3

in the sharing circle, every single person who participates should get their chance to share and receive a supportive response, including you! feeling as though we're being ignored is a really challenging thing to feel. if you are being ignored or not treated with respect in the room, the guidelines of sharing circle and the member rooms are unfortunately not being followed. if this is the case, you can submit a report for anyone who is treating you disrespectfully, as you deserve support and respect. we also have other support rooms open and support discussions that can hopefully act as another place to access support.

in the forums, we do have guidelines (the expanded version can be found HERE) that help keep the forums a safe and supportive space for everyone. no forum mentor would want your account to be removed, however we do want the best for you. since 7 cups is not a crisis site, we are unfortunately unable to support those who express thoughts of being in crisis. a more detailed description of our policy can be found at 7cups.com/crisis. i hope this helps clarify why your posts were edited and why forum mentors may need to make those edits and/or refer to our crisis resources.

i know that you are going through a very challenging time; feeling like we are unwanted is a terrible feeling, i hear you and understand. please know that we do not wish you were gone - we care about you and want the best for you. when one is experiencing crisis-type thoughts, the best place they can get support is a crisis line which is why we refer our members in crisis ❤️ we only wish the very best for you and all of our members here. i hope you are able to access the support you deserve.
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