Fear of failure
Im a college student. I have an extreme fear of failure. School has always been my top priority in my life ever since I was a kid. And I always knew with enough hard work I could pass anything. Lately in college I've been struggling a lot no matter how much I try. Its become my world; at this point I feel like they define my worth. I have insane anxiety whenever I see my grades. Idk what to do anymore. Nothing brings me Joy if it's not an B on my chemistry test anymore...
@DBM Aww well your worth is not defined by grades! You are worth it no matter what! If you are really struggling maybe a tutor or mentor could help?
I had the exact same issue. The thing that worked for me is finding something creative as an outlet. It isn't about finding joy as it is about establishing something outside of school in which you can find worth. It takes a while before it will bring you joy, but when you make something that comes out exactly the way you want it, it creates a feeling of pride and value. Start a blog with that craft and you will meet like minded people.
For me it was writing and drawing, but it could be cooking, gardening, photography, sewing, dance, anything that requires skill that is NOT based in school work. Also, if you had a creative hobby as a kid or teen and someone was critical GO BACK TO IT! I gurantee if it brought you joy before it can bring you joy again, even if it takes you a while to get there.
