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I don’t know how to make friends

User Profile: ValerieMaybe
ValerieMaybe January 31st, 2022

its hard for me to talk to people and I generally don’t even understand how to make friends. I hate small talk, but isn’t it a necessary stage in order to get a friend?

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User Profile: hopezzy
hopezzy January 31st, 2022

Hi @ValerieMaybe

I can relate to you. We all like to have friends to share the joy and everything beyond. ☺️

Yes, small talks can feel pointless. But you can build meaningful conversation by talking about things that both of you enjoy. Take tiny steps. First, try to interact with one person for a short period. Reflect on how you feel about that and build conversations you like.

Be yourself and share your genuine interests. Most importantly, other people like to be heard, as we do. So, pay attention to them, which will make you more likable.

Instead of forcing ourselves, I think our true interests will draw us to the group where we belong. Treat people like you want to be treated. It worked for me every single time.

AGAIN it should all be unfeigned. I hope you get to meet lots of amazing friends. ❤️


User Profile: dapperJar8756
dapperJar8756 February 15th, 2022

Online is a good way to make friends, if you wanna do that. Find a forum/chat/etc. about something you’re interested in. It’s much easier to talk about stuff when you’re interested in it.

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User Profile: dapperJar8756
dapperJar8756 February 15th, 2022

As you talk to more and more people, your social skills will improve.


User Profile: unfazedpotato
unfazedpotato February 20th, 2022

Could you tell where can I find these chats ?. Sorry I'm newbie

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User Profile: lavenderPond3109
lavenderPond3109 February 21st, 2022

Maybe like comment sections of YouTube videos about topics you're interested in or like topic based discord servers? There's also Amino (it's an social media app that's categorized by diff topics) idk I'm also inexperienced with online friends but there's a starting point at least

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User Profile: joss8289
joss8289 February 21st, 2022

First of all, find some hobby. [content removed by AffyAvo for spam, see guideline 9] I can show you this game and let's speak about it. I will be waiting for you in pm. Let`s make a friendship