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User Profile: smolstrawberries
smolstrawberries August 18th, 2020

so this year (my junior year) I'm in a different school than most of my friends. And because I hate change, I'm having a hard time adjusting to it and feeling like I'm not really gonna have a lot of support there. And then I start feeling anxious like what if I can't make a lot of friends on the first day or what if they do and they forget about me. The whole experience just has been really stressful. I only know one of my teachers so far (and it's online) so I don't have any links to get in and this week is just get to know each other and I'm stressed about that. I just feel so lonely and like I can't talk to anyone about this since I'm in a different school

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User Profile: faithlove1111
faithlove1111 August 18th, 2020

@smolstrawberries , Hugs to you. Changing schools can be pretty stressful and it's never easy leaving your friends behind. Just like how you started in your old school , I m sure the students here too will befriend you . Be patient and give yourself and them a chance. Meanwhile , enjoy some light exercise , like a walk or jogging in the park , sleep well and eat a balanced diet. These helps you in keeping you fit and healthy.

winkwink

User Profile: generousField6538
generousField6538 November 2nd, 2020

dude i know socializing sounds boring as fuck or hard to do it come on

socializing is like a chess, if you don't make the first move nobody will not make their either. unless they move their piece first (rarely/probably)

so to socialize YOU need to move the first piece and then they will move theirs!!

"but how i do it?" come on, that's not easy, but also not hard! you can approach someone and something like "hello, how are you? what's your name?"

it has many ways of approaaching someone and start talking with them and making friends!

and don't care if it will sound awkward or not life itself is awkward as hell but who cares? past is past future is future, you can live a crazy adventure making many cool friends possible

so yeah don't keep thinking how to approach them too much and JUST DO IT!!!

User Profile: lemon210
lemon210 November 5th, 2020

hi it is my second year of high school which is super stressful I feel like my friends are slowly pushing me because their online friends are apparently better and I get it its easier but there online when you have friends right in front of you i just need someone to talk to about problems...please.