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Some ways to relax during situations that give me anxiety?

User Profile: BadPunsMostly
BadPunsMostly January 26th, 2016

So a dance is coming up for school. And of course, my friend is introducing me to my crush.

I'm really anxious to meet her. I'm just really worried that I'll make a fool of myself when I talk to her for the first time.

Any tips or ideas that might help me relax?

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User Profile: HoldingOn297
HoldingOn297 January 26th, 2016

Just take a deep breath, and pretend you guys talk all the time, like its another friend

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User Profile: HoldingOn297
HoldingOn297 January 26th, 2016

So far I've learned that sometimes things aren't as bad as they seem at the moment

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User Profile: hiimnobody
hiimnobody January 26th, 2016

Be yourself and remember your worth. If she doesn't like you for you, then I'd say she doesn't deserve you. If you do something that makes you feel you're "making a fool of yourself" though, you can always try to make it into a joke! Hope I helped at least a little! Good luck!

User Profile: Cheeney
Cheeney January 26th, 2016

Be yourself. Take a few deep breaths. As mentioned above, you can pretend you're actually close friends with your crush if it makes you feel more comfortable talking to her.

Remember that for all you know, she's worried about making a fool of herself too. Maybe she'll be so worried that she won't even be able to notice you possibly being awkward. Good luck, don't forget to have fun smiley

User Profile: Sunflower71
Sunflower71 January 27th, 2016

I also would like to relax during anxiety. Some weeks ago, a bad person sent a message to my mother saying bad things to us and now I am worried everytime she is in Facebook or talking in the phone. Any advice, please? I think I will get a big crisis if this continues.

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User Profile: Cheeney
Cheeney January 27th, 2016

@Andreievich I think honesty is your best weapon, have you told her about your concerns?

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User Profile: Sunflower71
Sunflower71 January 27th, 2016

@Cheeney She told me that this man (my ex) was just talking trash and we won't listen to him, because he just want attention. But no, I never told her about the anxiety I am having right now... :(

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User Profile: Cheeney
Cheeney January 27th, 2016

@Andreievich My suggestion, tell your mother. I don't know you or the man that's bothering you so other than offering support I can't really help you. She might be able to relieve your anxiety in some way or atleast comfort you.

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