nobody wants me around
everywhere i go I'm unwanted trash, no friends no friend experience no one has ever liked me, all I can do now is hide in my apartment and wait for days to be over, but theres no point to doing that either because nothing will ever get better, ive tried everything and my life only got worse as a result
i am so sick of this
@ahhlo HELP ME my threads arent posting i keep getting error 403 - Forbidden] i dont know waht it means
please, i have a thread i really need to post but i cant it wont let me what do i do how do i fix this i really need to post a thread but i keep getting this message
Hey☺️ I know you posted this some days ago and i‘m not sure if how you are doing today, but i unterstand so good how you feeling, i have dealt with social anxiety so long and now my life got bettef, if u like i would be happy to chat a bit woth someone who understands how social anxiety feels like💛
@ahhlo hi you sound like my internal thoughts when I was younger and really lonely but I want you to know it can get better if you put forth the effort to expand your circle. There are a lot of good people out there if you go out looking for them! And the more you talk to people the less awkward it feels and the easier words will come to your mouth. It's really rewarding when you finally find people you connect with so I hope you don't give up! All the best ❤️
@lavenderPond3109
I tried really hard to make friends and it neve rworked, ive always been rejected and outcast. You say that one day ill make friends but have zero evidence to support it.
@ahhlo I was just sharing my experience but obviously I'm not gonna give you personal details for you to confirm lol. It seems unlikely that there isn't a single person in the 8 billion people that make up the planet that you can get along with, just saying. But I definitely relate to feeling like everyone hates me - I think what helped me was remembering that the true neutral state of mind for people to think of you is not at all or with indifference not hate. People generally mean well but sometimes when we overthink it, we expect more and then it feels like they hate us when they actually don't. Also I feel like this is kind of overlooked but make sure you're taking care of your body! I definitely feel way worse when I haven't taken my vitamins. For your friends problem, maybe try seeking out people who have a similar background to you? The only friend I managed to make on my own in college was someone who shared my ethnic background and upbringing. Hope this helps!
it doesnt help. motivational words will not help me, my physical reality is that no one wants to be around me. There's nothing i can do about it because i was born with social anxiety
Can you snap yourself out of the negativity? You need to think more positively. You’re consuming negativity, believing it’s true and sharing it with everyone. The reality is that you aren’t negative, one single bit.